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BlueStreak

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21. Yes, I think that is true
Sun May 19, 2013, 10:49 PM
May 2013

But I also recognize the normal greeting would be "Have a nice day" which I greatly appreciate and respond in kind. It is a conscious choice to substitute "blessed" for "nice" and we all know exactly what is going on here. There can be an argument whether it rises to the level of deserving a response or whether Christian zealots should be entitled to a free shot whenever they want. I get the argument that it is a misdemeanor, not a felony, on the scale of bad manners in the name of proselytizing.

I did a little searching and discovered that many people are as annoyed by this as I am, and nobody has been able to come up with very good counter-measures. One suggested "Have a scientific day", but saying that preemptively would be pretty dickish to somebody who had no intention to proselytize in the first place.

Someone else suggested "May Cthulhu eat you last." I had to look up that reference, so it surely would sail over the blesser's head.

The best suggestion I have seen is to respond to the "Have a blessed day" with "Live long and prosper". That should do the trick. I expect the blesser to thank me for my kind words because, you know, I'm just sharing good wishes.

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If you read the labels on those cans Warpy May 2013 #1
There is a lot of stuff in them, bobja May 2013 #2
Then they've changed for the better Warpy May 2013 #3
i remember tofu pups. i was vegetarian for a while DesertFlower May 2013 #8
"Have a blessed day" BlueStreak May 2013 #9
would it bother you if a wiccan said that? arely staircase May 2013 #11
I don't think a Wiccan would say that. BlueStreak May 2013 #19
i think you see aggressiveness in the way small groups of fundies see it in happy holidays arely staircase May 2013 #20
Yes, I think that is true BlueStreak May 2013 #21
It's not the same at all, really Major Nikon May 2013 #23
it is the same in that arely staircase May 2013 #24
I don't get mad about it Major Nikon May 2013 #26
i'll take a religious based blessing or well wishing from anyone who wants to give it, arely staircase May 2013 #29
That's not the same situation Major Nikon May 2013 #32
Now that you know that many people find this offensive, does that change anything? BlueStreak May 2013 #40
You are right about it being mostly evangelicals. My father is an evangelical Christian. liberal_at_heart May 2013 #25
It's proselytizing Major Nikon May 2013 #27
Yes, you are correct. I was a Wiccan for a few years, RebelOne May 2013 #34
I take it as a "Look at ME! I feel called upon to share my faith with EVERYONE!" trof May 2013 #44
"Thank you" works for me any time I'm wished well by another. n/t cordelia May 2013 #13
I agree KinMd May 2013 #22
If a person is wishing you well.. Fla_Democrat May 2013 #14
Actually I'm not looking for a retort. I want a pre-emptive strike BlueStreak May 2013 #18
Well, one retort, if you must, is to use the same blessing on them. justiceischeap May 2013 #28
both pagans and christians use the blessED pronunciation. arely staircase May 2013 #35
If I sneeze and someone says "Bless you" OriginalGeek May 2013 #31
Actually, the Center for Inquiry has lots of meetings. BlueStreak May 2013 #36
And for a sample, here is CFI's comment on the tornado BlueStreak May 2013 #38
One of my pet peeves... uriel1972 May 2013 #15
I am a vegetarian and an atheist, RebelOne May 2013 #4
Most Christian bookstores don't sell vegetarian food Lydia Leftcoast May 2013 #6
If they have Ten Talents, pick it up Warpy May 2013 #16
It's like those Mennonite books - Living More With Less, and the kestrel91316 May 2013 #17
They do have very good health habits. undeterred May 2013 #5
Now I'm hungry. johnp3907 May 2013 #7
you bought groceries at a bookstore? arely staircase May 2013 #10
I've found that Catholic book stores evlbstrd May 2013 #12
And incense!!! Manifestor_of_Light May 2013 #33
I love the smell of frankencense and myrrh incense. liberal_at_heart May 2013 #37
Why are you vegans so obsessed with Bay Boy May 2013 #30
Because a tube or a patty conveniently tucks in a roll & leaves room for condiments. politicat May 2013 #39
Because it fits the buns you meat-eating bastards make! Codeine May 2013 #43
praise hell datasuspect May 2013 #41
It's okay. Christian book stores also carry excellent stealth tablet cases. politicat May 2013 #42
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