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In reply to the discussion: Fox contributor: Liberals who reject that men should dominate women are anti-science [View all]fitman
(482 posts)take the lead role in our relationship....Don't get me wrong I don't boss or dominate her. I could never respect a woman if I looked upon her as biblically subservient which is a turnoff to both of us.
She makes more than me, kept her maiden name(for business reasons) and we look at each others as equals..we even have separate checking accounts/credit cards and she runs her own business.
That being said she admits it's a huge turn-on to her when I make the decisions/take charge around the house and our personal life. Maybe because she makes tough, stressful decisions at work every day it's nice to come home and have someone else take the responsibility and be in charge...I don't know. She knows I would never make her do something she did not like or agree and always look out for her best interest. We are best friends besides lovers. .
Little things for instance... She never initiates sex and hates if i grovel or ask for it. She wants me to initiate, start making out and if she does not want to she will tell me which is rare.