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In reply to the discussion: What we as Democrats and Obama will own. [View all]Bluenorthwest
(45,319 posts)you did not insist on claiming DOMA when the opposite of progress is what defines this moment. DOMA is the law of the land. It harms my family's standing in life, Joe. It is not cute to use it as a pompom until it is won.
This is the single most cloying tactic used on DU. Some go so far as to claim 'DOMA is no longer enforced' others say 'gays have plenty of rights already'.
It is always tacky to demand credit for work left undone, smarmy to expect congratulations for continued discrimination.
If you folks would just not try to claim DOMA as a victory until it is won, you'd find far fewer angry responses. DOMA is the law of the land, used by YOUR community to do harm to my own community, right now, still, no end in sight. Deal with the facts, please.