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Savannahmann

(3,891 posts)
13. Generally speaking, I can find something in anyone to disagree with.
Wed Jul 10, 2013, 07:19 PM
Jul 2013

I've yet to come across anyone with whom I can agree entirely on every subject. My faith is my own business, I'd describe it as pieces of a number of faiths, and sciences.

That aside, I'm not making excuse for them. I've got no idea what they are like personally, you are unarguably better acquainted with them than I am. I would not try to argue you out of considering the one is an asshole.

However, I've found that many people are for lack of a better term, chameleons. They go along with whomever they are speaking to at the moment. If they are talking to a RW loon, they find it easier to agree, and go along, and parrot the talking points, not like that's difficult, a three year old could do so. By doing so, they tell themselves that they are being neighborly, or avoiding the inevitable difficulties that will arise in attempting to further educate a moron.

The one you consider an a-hole. I know a couple people like that. I don't bother arguing with them. I learned long ago that it is impossible to pour sense into the mind of a fool. I'll smile and nod my agreement when they present the latest insane theory. The sad part is, that often they have a kernel of truth in those theories, but they are unable to find it in the fluff of nonsense. An example would probably clarify that. Take the normal nonsensical argument against tax increases. They don't understand the enormous disparity of wealth, and of earnings. They ignore the declining standard of living for a majority of us, and the diminishing middle class. But there is a kernel of truth. The truth is that often Government squander money foolishly, just as people will squander money. In Afghanistan, they just completed construction of a $34 million dollar headquarters complex, about twelve months before we are going to be pulling the last troop out. Nobody wanted it, but we pushed it through, and wasted the money on a building that we'll never use.

Now, we here know that for every example of asinine waste, we can find three examples of well spent money. Disaster relief, food for the poor, Alternative Energy research, Climate Change research, and I could go on, and on, and on. So could you in all probability.

For the one you kind of liked previously, strike up a conversation later. Don't mention this, find a subject and see what he thinks about something else. I suspect, with very little evidence other than the fact that you liked him previously to some extent, and I would trust your judgment to smell out a RW lunatic before now, that he is a chameleon, able to shift from right to left, and personally far more moderate, than you give him credit for at this moment.

A moderate I can live with, they normally go with the crowd, and the crowd tends to avoid lunatic RW nuts.

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You live in a trailer park? Archae Jul 2013 #1
I live in a trailer park and have never heard any shit like that. RebelOne Jul 2013 #7
I guess it depends on the trailer park Nevernose Jul 2013 #29
nope. bunnies Jul 2013 #8
Where would you go? Archae Jul 2013 #17
Good question. I dont know. bunnies Jul 2013 #21
Wow. I feel bad for you. Laelth Jul 2013 #2
And I usually take care of assholes plants when he goes away for work. bunnies Jul 2013 #10
So you are willing to kill your neighbors plants -- CokeMachine Jul 2013 #55
Overreact much? bunnies Jul 2013 #59
Maybe there is a God and he had had enough so came the rain. n/t Bonhomme Richard Jul 2013 #3
lol. bunnies Jul 2013 #11
Wow wryter2000 Jul 2013 #4
Weve thought about calling the police before. bunnies Jul 2013 #14
I wish it was only a small handful of right-wing nuts who thought like that - but it is not Douglas Carpenter Jul 2013 #5
I just didnt expect it to be in my house! bunnies Jul 2013 #16
I was thinking a grenade. Just Saying Jul 2013 #56
Do you mind if I ask JustAnotherGen Jul 2013 #6
Southeast NH. nt bunnies Jul 2013 #9
Gaaah JustAnotherGen Jul 2013 #12
Sounds about right for Salem... n/t Agschmid Jul 2013 #31
Im closer to Portsmouth which is very liberal, typically. bunnies Jul 2013 #33
No way! smirkymonkey Jul 2013 #34
So did I. bunnies Jul 2013 #41
Generally speaking, I can find something in anyone to disagree with. Savannahmann Jul 2013 #13
Thank you. bunnies Jul 2013 #18
maybe the next door guy was just going along to get along? Raine1967 Jul 2013 #30
Id like to think that... bunnies Jul 2013 #32
Like I said -- been there. Raine1967 Jul 2013 #53
There's a line from a John Wayne movie....... Capt.Rocky300 Jul 2013 #15
Did he have baggers for neighbors too? bunnies Jul 2013 #25
I think you could say that........... Capt.Rocky300 Jul 2013 #58
lol. Liberal_in_LA Jul 2013 #19
No laughing at my misery! bunnies Jul 2013 #26
Doesn't sound too different from DU these days frankly Maximumnegro Jul 2013 #20
Oh yeah. The asshole was going on and on... bunnies Jul 2013 #24
I understand your frustration abelenkpe Jul 2013 #22
Im starting to think that goes for just about everyone I know. bunnies Jul 2013 #23
surrounded refrescanos Jul 2013 #39
I just wish they'd do their preaching away from my window... bunnies Jul 2013 #43
thanks for the welcome refrescanos Jul 2013 #48
He's partly right about #3 ... zbdent Jul 2013 #27
He had actually raised his voice saying that. bunnies Jul 2013 #28
RW cousin of mine imported a bride from Ukraine. reflection Jul 2013 #35
Thats the theory that bunnies-mr & I have developed. bunnies Jul 2013 #38
I swear, I could have written every word of what you did. reflection Jul 2013 #40
Theres definitely no love here. bunnies Jul 2013 #42
Quick! Mop the floors and scrub the toilet... Earth_First Jul 2013 #36
lol. Its funny you should say that... bunnies Jul 2013 #37
Put any two RWNJ's together and I bet they'll have this same convo. nt RedCappedBandit Jul 2013 #44
Seems that way. bunnies Jul 2013 #45
I'm sorry you have to put up with such nonsense RedCappedBandit Jul 2013 #46
lol. bunnies Jul 2013 #47
It sounds like you might be living above Lee Harvey Oswald LondonReign2 Jul 2013 #49
omg. bunnies Jul 2013 #50
Tell me about it! I live in eastern Idaho I hear this every day. Mbrow Jul 2013 #51
I feel for you. bunnies Jul 2013 #52
Come to Texas... malokvale77 Jul 2013 #54
Appropriate responses, point by point=) Volaris Jul 2013 #57
Seriously. That list is awesome. bunnies Jul 2013 #60
Yeah man, don't take shit from these people, real Liberals FIGHT BACK... Volaris Jul 2013 #61
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