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galileoreloaded

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8. lol. thats not the issue at all.

Thu Jul 18, 2013, 04:38 PM

Jul 2013

men don't have a clue how to interact with women, don't understand sexual dimorphism, don't understand the inversion of agendas and how big of a part biology plays.

and men that DO know don't share that info because hey, who wants competition? and because of that, 95% of men, those not in the know, pathetically use "nice guy" behaviors as sexual currency but get confused, and angry, and all abuse-y when few girls take that type of credit card.

meanwhile, women love an asshole of the genuine type simply BECAUSE his day doesn't revolve around talking to yet another boring (to him) female on a train or bus. he doesn't care what happens and she can sniff that out as easy as she can sniff out a "nice guy".

just another day.

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Changing The Creepy Guy Narrative [View all] Matariki Jul 2013 OP

Great read. Thanks for the link. Arkansas Granny Jul 2013 #1

Don't I know it. I never could understand how someone could see reading a book as an open invitation Matariki Jul 2013 #2

You're just too sensitive. Gormy Cuss Jul 2013 #3

pow! Matariki Jul 2013 #5

I love getting older for that reason too. Starry Messenger Jul 2013 #4

+1! PasadenaTrudy Jul 2013 #15

It's nice to have real conversations now. Starry Messenger Jul 2013 #18

Yep. n/t PasadenaTrudy Jul 2013 #21

Ditto that! silverweb Jul 2013 #9

Yes, I went through all that sexual harassment in my younger years, at work and in public. RebelOne Jul 2013 #19

Unfortunately, it's been an all too common experience for women. silverweb Jul 2013 #28

... galileoreloaded Jul 2013 #6

I agree Matariki Jul 2013 #7

lol. thats not the issue at all. galileoreloaded Jul 2013 #8

define 'asshole' Matariki Jul 2013 #12

its never a big mistake to align behaivioral patterns galileoreloaded Jul 2013 #13

That's pretty simplistic and puts a big wall of bias between you and other individuals Matariki Jul 2013 #17

there is no bias because i dont assume i'm better. galileoreloaded Jul 2013 #20

I remember being recommended a book once called "Men Are Just Desserts" Matariki Jul 2013 #22

i don't think it work the same for women though, and i advise against galileoreloaded Jul 2013 #23

wow, you missed my point entirely. Matariki Jul 2013 #25

And they *weren't* fucked up 50 or more years ago? nomorenomore08 Jul 2013 #30

what I mean is... Matariki Jul 2013 #24

well we agree. nt galileoreloaded Jul 2013 #26

on some things Matariki Jul 2013 #27

Hey, at least she's being honest... nomorenomore08 Jul 2013 #10

yep! we need to teach boys to walk away from these girls and not gas up their egos galileoreloaded Jul 2013 #11

Awesome read, thank you! (nt) noamnety Jul 2013 #14

I read this on twitter last week PasadenaTrudy Jul 2013 #16

"WHY DON'T YOU SMILE!?" Dash87 Jul 2013 #29