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TM99

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3. See, this is the broad generalization.
Sat Jul 20, 2013, 04:22 AM
Jul 2013

Yet, it isn't very factual.

My social circle of Gen Xers is rather wide. We have stayed in touch professionally since our educational years. By our early 20's we were self-employed or working on advanced graduate degrees. We have been in our professions now for over close to 25 years now. We were doing martial arts, bodywork, going to lectures, exploring religions, doing graduate studies, and I didn't know a single friend of mine in my 20's who moved by home to live with their parents after graduation.

I know 20 and 30 year olds who still live at home, struggle to find jobs, have no idea what career they want to persue, etc.

Millenials have inherited a different kind of social mess - student loan debt (not that us Xers don't have our fair share of that), a stagnant economy, a constantly blaring media driven world on and off the internet, and the rise of the sociopathic corporate state. It is hard to 'do shit' as you say, in these kinds of circumstances. Some of course do, and many can not. That is what is meant by a generalization and then the exceptions.

Xer's were said to be slackers and yet, I have yet to observe one. The 40 something's I know are all working, have careers, families, etc.

I do not say this with antagonism. I am not bashing any generation, however, I do subscribe from my psychological experience professionally and personally to the very solid idea that there are generational differences and generalizations which can be made about thinking, feeling, and being in the culture as it is.

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To the Millenials from a Gen Xer [View all] DonCoquixote Jul 2013 OP
"Yes, you do act a bit older, and are quieter" = GOT THEIR FUCKING ACT TOGETHER. sibelian Jul 2013 #1
See, this is the broad generalization. TM99 Jul 2013 #3
not bashing DonCoquixote Jul 2013 #4
Of course, we don't speak for all. TM99 Jul 2013 #8
It's a lack of shame... Pelican Jul 2013 #6
Or a lack of career opportunities or, in some areas, no jobs *period*. nomorenomore08 Jul 2013 #7
I think it is a bit of both. TM99 Jul 2013 #9
Indeed DonCoquixote Jul 2013 #12
Thats what happens. Notafraidtoo Jul 2013 #14
It's Not a New Standard RobinA Jul 2013 #22
My kids are Millennials. They both have their shit together. calimary Jul 2013 #19
Did we read the same article? TM99 Jul 2013 #2
Young? DonCoquixote Jul 2013 #5
Again, different social groups apparently. TM99 Jul 2013 #10
This message was self-deleted by its author UserNSAv32 Jul 2013 #11
Welcome to DU, UserNSAv32! calimary Jul 2013 #27
The stereotyping of generations is so, so dumb. In the case of Gen X, the journalists are way off. reformist2 Jul 2013 #13
k&r for exposure. This is an interesting discussion. n/t Laelth Jul 2013 #15
We hire Millenials in our office. avebury Jul 2013 #16
I would like to put my gen-x stamp of approval MattBaggins Jul 2013 #17
I have never understood all of this generational labeling. I think it's silly johnlucas Jul 2013 #18
You make many valid points. TM99 Jul 2013 #20
As a gen xer, here is my braod brush of millenials arely staircase Jul 2013 #21
Agree With That Negative RobinA Jul 2013 #23
This Boomer RobinA Jul 2013 #24
I'm on the cusp of Gen X/Milennial tabbycat31 Jul 2013 #25
Every generation has its challenges. SheilaT Jul 2013 #26
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