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In reply to the discussion: Go to hell in a hand basket Weiner... [View all]Zorra
(27,670 posts)puritanical sky daddy religions and their institutionalized horror of sex I'd pay for free health care for everyone in the world for the rest of their lives.
A lot of the people complaining about Weiner's weirdness are hypocrites who have far more bizarre fantasies that they would like to fulfill in real time.
I have been sexually uninhibited, open, and promiscuous my entire life. I was a member of a working rock band for a long time. I try not to be a hypocrite, I've made my share of mistakes in relationships like anyone else. And you know what? I know for absolute 100% sure, from long and frequent experience, that Weiner's weirdness is pretty tame compared to a lot of other people's "weirdness". Believe it.
It's the dishonesty that is troubling to me.
That prim little nurse next door? Nothing gets her off more than peeing on her boyfriend while riding him like a pony in the bathtub.
The ex-marine across the street? He fantasizes about your husband fucking him in the ass while his wife watches and masturbates
You, or your sister, or best friend, maybe really gets off on doing it while being tied up and blindfolded.
Or whatever color you like.
Tony the Congressman gets off on sending naughty pictures to nubile young women. The republican congressman or senator whatshisname gets off sucking strange through a glory hole in a bathroom stall in an airport. Bill the President likes to penetrate his young female aide with a fine havana before she blows him. Billy boy the gambling secretary of education religious hypocrite pays his dominatrix to whip his ass black and blue while making him grovel and telling him what a worthless piece of shit he is. etc. on and on and on'...
It's the secrecy, dishonesty, and guilt involved that is the real issue here. If a person is going to be in a committed relationship with someone,then they need to be honest with them about their sexuality and their fantasies and needs.
If Anthony felt he could not be honest with his wife about his needs and fantasies, then what's the fucking point of being with her? Isn't this the same way with everyone? What's the point of being in a relationship if you're going to live a lie and hurt yourself and others by it?
People really need to be honest with themselves and their significant others, or they are going to inevitably cause a painful nasty mess of misery for someone somewhere down the road, including themselves.
It's the secrecy, dishonesty, and hypocrisy that causes and makes sex and relationships to be so ugly and painful for so many people, and nothing is going to even begin to change unless/until society somehow miraculously gets real about sex.
Some phony hypocritical prude here may alert on this post and get it hidden, but it would be just trying to hide the truth, and pretty much everybody here damn well knows it.
