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SummerSnow

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Sun Aug 11, 2013, 06:56 PM Aug 2013

Heres the thing.... [View all]

A friend of mine was recently asked to cook a dish for a party for someone we both know. I was asked but i declined cause I just don't like the person. So my friend decided she was going to make the dish and take it to the party. The hostess asked her to make 2 large pans of lasagne and she did. She went to the party and brought the food. Upon arrival the hostess told her she could not stay cause she was not invited. she told her she was just to bring the food. she said it is not her fault she assumed she was invited. So my friend said okay and took her two pans of lasagna back home. The hostess was livid. Who was right and who was wrong? i think my friend was right. what do you think?

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Heres the thing.... [View all] SummerSnow Aug 2013 OP
ohmigod burnodo Aug 2013 #1
Unless The Philosopher Aug 2013 #2
When she called her........ SummerSnow Aug 2013 #4
It could be a mistake of clarity The Philosopher Aug 2013 #27
Who invites people to make food ,for a party their not invited to ? orpupilofnature57 Aug 2013 #33
Like I said The Philosopher Aug 2013 #35
This message was self-deleted by its author LumosMaxima Aug 2013 #3
Holy crap! LeftofObama Aug 2013 #5
That's some bizarre mind games going on there. mucifer Aug 2013 #6
I think... Oakenshield Aug 2013 #7
This is why I dont like her.... SummerSnow Aug 2013 #10
How does that lady not get punched in the face every day? Iggo Aug 2013 #13
lol. nt sufrommich Aug 2013 #21
Excellent question. Oakenshield Aug 2013 #26
+10.000 smirkymonkey Aug 2013 #36
This message was self-deleted by its author LumosMaxima Aug 2013 #14
WTF, the host should be happy the lasagne wasn't dumped on her carpet. nt boston bean Aug 2013 #8
No shit. nt ZombieHorde Aug 2013 #30
Not really a right or wrong thingy imo. Rex Aug 2013 #9
Who in their right mind asks someone to make a dish ohheckyeah Aug 2013 #16
Seriously? Who thinks they have to ask if they're invited sufrommich Aug 2013 #24
sounds like the adult version of Mean Girls. aikoaiko Aug 2013 #11
I really don't understand this jberryhill Aug 2013 #12
I think the hostess needs Human Relations 101 steve2470 Aug 2013 #15
I would have only taken one dish home. rrneck Aug 2013 #17
The hostess is a sociopath xfundy Aug 2013 #18
$35 per lasagna for catering... your friend was right to walk. n/t MerryBlooms Aug 2013 #19
Seriously? You have to ask who was right? sufrommich Aug 2013 #20
Your friend was right malaise Aug 2013 #22
Tacky hostess, I can see why you don't like her . orpupilofnature57 Aug 2013 #23
After I pushed the retch's face in the lasagne olddots Aug 2013 #25
I think I know why you don't like her. bravenak Aug 2013 #28
Your friend was quite right, and far more polite than the hostess warranted. PDJane Aug 2013 #29
The hostess was crack. ZombieHorde Aug 2013 #31
I would have been SORELY tempted to dump the lasagna on her head LiberalEsto Aug 2013 #32
I don't understand how you can even ask the question. Your friend is right and the hostess is Egalitarian Thug Aug 2013 #34
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