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darkangel218

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32. There are different levels of drunkiness.

Reply to Liberal_in_LA (Original post)

Wed Aug 21, 2013, 09:34 PM

Aug 2013

Being intoxicated doesn't always mean you can't make decisions.

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Dr. Phil asks: �If a girl is drunk, is it OK to have sex with her?� [View all] Liberal_in_LA Aug 2013 OP

I've had sex with girls when we were both drunk. phleshdef Aug 2013 #1

Same LittleBlue Aug 2013 #6

They should just detain themselves and report to the nearest police station. Comrade Grumpy Aug 2013 #15

Depends, I suppose, on HOW drunk ... Bake Aug 2013 #24

The best and worst sex of my life happened when we were both drunk. Xithras Aug 2013 #12

Hehe, yea I hear ya. phleshdef Aug 2013 #13

Priceless Sammich Man Aug 2013 #2

Dr. Phil is a fucking moron gopiscrap Aug 2013 #3

No it's not, you fucking Neanderthal. NuclearDem Aug 2013 #4

So, Dr. Phil, if a drunk Georgia mountain man has YOU hog-tied and "nekkid"... Ken Burch Aug 2013 #5

You need to send to him, Ken. LuvNewcastle Aug 2013 #8

I'm curious as to why these arguments never take into account... malthaussen Aug 2013 #7

Indeed--one should always take into account the relationship between people when rape, murder, and msanthrope Aug 2013 #14

Drunk sex = rape and murder? I'm not following you... Comrade Grumpy Aug 2013 #16

Ah, you misunderstand. Or I express myself ill. malthaussen Aug 2013 #18

It is rape if there is no consent BainsBane Aug 2013 #45

What specifically leads you to that conclusion? LanternWaste Aug 2013 #20

Because of the way the questions are framed. malthaussen Aug 2013 #21

If she wants to snooper2 Aug 2013 #9

Agreed. darkangel218 Aug 2013 #35

Perhaps "No!" is the answer he was looking for, and this was an petronius Aug 2013 #10

I was wondering the same thing. HappyMe Aug 2013 #11

You could've at least said "If a WOMAN is drunk," Dr. Phil. nt raccoon Aug 2013 #17

You sort of wonder if he was listening to Gary Puckett and the Union Gap Ken Burch Aug 2013 #23

The only thing he wanted was to get people to pay attention to him. CBGLuthier Aug 2013 #19

Absolutely. It's rape if you're sober and she's drunk. But if you're both drunk, pnwmom Aug 2013 #22

I am "legally drunk" after 3 beers. darkangel218 Aug 2013 #34

Not politically correct, but not a smart thing to say due to ambiguity. Socal31 Aug 2013 #25

Feministing: Five Problems With Dr. Phil's Tweet gollygee Aug 2013 #26

Dr Phil should probably do like Pinto tularetom Aug 2013 #27

A Texas conservative. Dawson Leery Aug 2013 #28

Define "drunk" RandySF Aug 2013 #29

Idiot. senseandsensibility Aug 2013 #30

PhD in Creepiness. darkangel218 Aug 2013 #33

Yet another sleezy Harpo Production. longship Aug 2013 #31

It takes a lot of effort to blame a woman for a man's comments about rape BainsBane Aug 2013 #46

If it wasn't for Oprah, Nobody'd know who Dr. Phil was. nt longship Aug 2013 #50

There are different levels of drunkiness. darkangel218 Aug 2013 #32

At what point does it become rape? pokerfan Aug 2013 #37

IMO, i would consider i would be raped if i was blacked out, or so drunk darkangel218 Aug 2013 #38

That's not the problem though. The problem is that to a lot of people, apparently drunkenness = nomorenomore08 Aug 2013 #40

I doubt thats the case. darkangel218 Aug 2013 #41

I mostly agree. So long as one person isn't a whole lot more inebriated than the other. nomorenomore08 Aug 2013 #43

The law says someone who is intoxicated cannot legally consent to rape BainsBane Aug 2013 #47

I agree. nt ZombieHorde Aug 2013 #51

If Dr. Phil speaks, is it OK to drop an anvil on his head? Squinch Aug 2013 #36

Intoxication of any kind DOES NOT CONSTITUTE de facto consent. nomorenomore08 Aug 2013 #39

So you basically advocate having sex only when sober?? darkangel218 Aug 2013 #42

I never said that. And it's not my view at all. nomorenomore08 Aug 2013 #44

Its not besides the point. darkangel218 Aug 2013 #48

Yeah, that's what I said. But I said it was "beside the point" because the real issue at hand nomorenomore08 Aug 2013 #49

Some people *do* argue that intoxication automatically equals non-consent in these discussions. redgreenandblue Aug 2013 #52

someone needs blueknight Aug 2013 #53