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vankuria

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141. I'm so sorry

Mon Oct 21, 2013, 06:53 PM

Oct 2013

Know just how you feel...lost my mom 2 yrs. ago. It's a huge loss but it does get a bit easier. I was in a terrible state for a while and then realized mom would want me to be happy and enjoy my life and your mom would too. You are very fortunate you got to spend lots of time with your mom before she passed. I'm sure she cherished every minute she had with you. I can tell from your photo you and your mom were very close, a beautiful bond that will never die.

After mom passed I made a corner of my living room a tribute to her, put favorite photos of her in beautiful frames, found plaques with sweet sayings about moms, placed a jewelry box with her photo on it and her jewelry inside. It's very sweet and everyone that walks into the house notices it and I'm always adding to it.

Always remember, love never dies. Good luck.

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I lost my mom on Saturday.......... [View all] nc4bo Oct 2013 OP

I'm so sorry to hear that. MineralMan Oct 2013 #1

Thank you MM. Hold your dear ones close and tell them you love nc4bo Oct 2013 #5

Excellent advice. My parents are both 89 years old. MineralMan Oct 2013 #9

My heart goes out to you... PasadenaTrudy Oct 2013 #46

I am so sorry. sabrina 1 Oct 2013 #2

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My condolences on your loss. MANative Oct 2013 #3

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So sorry for your loss. redstatebluegirl Oct 2013 #4

oh you've said it so well............in terrible pain right now.. nc4bo Oct 2013 #11

I know it doesn't feel like it will ever stop redstatebluegirl Oct 2013 #15

RSBG, I felt the same sensation when my mother passed. woodsprite Oct 2013 #60

Deepest sympathy to you and yours malaise Oct 2013 #6

Yes yes it is horrible. nc4bo Oct 2013 #12

So very sorry.. Tikki Oct 2013 #7

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I am so sorry to hear this nc4bo.... onecent Oct 2013 #14

So appreciative onecent. And thank you. nc4bo Oct 2013 #16

Sorry for your loss. Stuart G Oct 2013 #17

I am so sorry. riverbendviewgal Oct 2013 #18

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So sorry for your loss, nc4bo LiberalEsto Oct 2013 #19

We are trying LiberalEsto - so hard - too fresh. nc4bo Oct 2013 #29

My condolences. n/t ProSense Oct 2013 #20

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(( nc )) blm Oct 2013 #21

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I'm so sorry for your loss. MoonRiver Oct 2013 #22

Thanks MoonRiver.......... nc4bo Oct 2013 #32

I'm very sorry for your loss - TBF Oct 2013 #23

. nc4bo Oct 2013 #33

Very generous last words. JNelson6563 Oct 2013 #24

:*( nc4bo Oct 2013 #41

It's all about death with dignity and love. WCLinolVir Oct 2013 #162

I am so sorry to hear this riderinthestorm Oct 2013 #25

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You have my deepest sympathies leftynyc Oct 2013 #26

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I'm so sorry for the loss of your Mom. My sympathy to your family and all who knew livetohike Oct 2013 #28

Losing a mother is about as bad as it gets. zeemike Oct 2013 #34

My deepest sympathies to you and yours, nc4bo. sheshe2 Oct 2013 #35

My condolences and giving you a big hug BumRushDaShow Oct 2013 #36

My condolences.... magical thyme Oct 2013 #37

I'm sorry for your loss Stargazer09 Oct 2013 #38

I'm so sorry. Are_grits_groceries Oct 2013 #39

My condolences Tippy Oct 2013 #40

So sorry your Mother is no longer with you......... Fla Dem Oct 2013 #44

Sorry for your loss! mecherosegarden Oct 2013 #45

I'm so sorry. Lefta Dissenter Oct 2013 #47

My deepest condolences question everything Oct 2013 #48

I'm so sorry. Her last words are the most precious. Eleanors38 Oct 2013 #49

I'm so sorry for your loss. ColesCountyDem Oct 2013 #50

My heart goes out to you. It will take time to recover, but yellerpup Oct 2013 #51

Follow her wish--she riversedge Oct 2013 #52

So very sorry. Best to you and all your family. n/t Bossy Monkey Oct 2013 #53

So sorry to hear this, nc4bo. ucrdem Oct 2013 #54

Love and Light. nt truebluegreen Oct 2013 #55

Condolences to you and RIP for your mom! gopiscrap Oct 2013 #56

I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope alsame Oct 2013 #57

I am so sorry for your loss! peace13 Oct 2013 #58

Sorry to hear of your loss. Hugin Oct 2013 #59

I'm so sorry. I lost my mom in April and my dad died a week ago. It's so hard but it gets better. OregonBlue Oct 2013 #61

so very sorry for your loss as well. hard to lose both so close together. glad you and your niyad Oct 2013 #86

Thank you. It has been a rough few months. Thank god for loving family. OregonBlue Oct 2013 #125

Heartfelt condolences - I know what you're going through SnowCritter Oct 2013 #62

I am so sorry... renate Oct 2013 #97

so very sorry for your loss as well. may you and your loved ones find peace and comfort, and may niyad Oct 2013 #132

Condolences on your loss. IdaBriggs Oct 2013 #63

I'm sorry for your loss OhioChick Oct 2013 #64

So sorry, it is a lovely picture of the two of you to remember her by trocar Oct 2013 #65

My condolences. 840high Oct 2013 #66

It is good that you had that time together. riqster Oct 2013 #67

You were a wonderful, loving daughter cilla4progress Oct 2013 #68

So very sorry you lost your beloved mother. Mad-in-Mo Oct 2013 #69

We spend our whole lives making memories..... Uben Oct 2013 #69

great photo yurbud Oct 2013 #71

I am very sorry... Tom_Foolery Oct 2013 #72

Condolences to you and yours. pecwae Oct 2013 #73

(((((()))))) grahamhgreen Oct 2013 #74

I'm sorry for your loss JohnnyLib2 Oct 2013 #75

I'm so sorry for your loss. ((hugs)) rivegauche Oct 2013 #76

Peace be with you my friend. William769 Oct 2013 #77

I'm so sorry ... Triana Oct 2013 #78

so very sorry to hear this. may she be at peace, and may you find peace and comfort, and the niyad Oct 2013 #79

Hugs nadinbrzezinski Oct 2013 #80

I am so sorry for your loss. Liberalynn Oct 2013 #81

So sorry, nc4bo graywarrior Oct 2013 #82

Condolences. May fond memories comfort and keep you. nt kelliekat44 Oct 2013 #83

I am sorry for your loss. denbot Oct 2013 #84

Holding you in the Light, nc4bo TygrBright Oct 2013 #85

Take Care ProfessorGAC Oct 2013 #87

I'm sorry for your troubles - hedgehog Oct 2013 #88

I'm so sorry for your loss ashling Oct 2013 #89

Oh sweetheart, I'm so sorry. tblue Oct 2013 #90

Thank you so much DU for your kindness. To those who have recently or nc4bo Oct 2013 #91

I'm so sorry renate Oct 2013 #92

Sorry for your loss nc4bo skeewee08 Oct 2013 #93

I'm very sorry to hear this...my thoughts are with you... joeybee12 Oct 2013 #94

Hey, nc4bo, thank you for posting here and sharing this with us. calimary Oct 2013 #95

I am so sorry for your loss. What a wonderful daughter you were to her. LiberalLoner Oct 2013 #96

(((((((nc4bo))))))) WillyT Oct 2013 #98

Sorry to hear, I lost my Mom in June Bennyboy Oct 2013 #99

so very sorry for your loss. may you and your loved ones find peace and comfort. niyad Oct 2013 #135

So sorry for your loss. TDale313 Oct 2013 #100

So, so sorry to read this news Samantha Oct 2013 #101

(((so sorry))) handmade34 Oct 2013 #102

May her name be remembered for a blessing Hekate Oct 2013 #103

The loss of your mom will be the most profound loss you will experience. kaiden Oct 2013 #104

So sorry for your loss dbackjon Oct 2013 #105

Oh, what a sweetheart fadedrose Oct 2013 #106

My deepest sympathies, nc4bo. Granny M Oct 2013 #107

Condolences gademocrat7 Oct 2013 #108

My sympathies are with you and your hurting heart right now... thecrow Oct 2013 #109

My sincere condolences. I almost wish I could convey some trite cliche that may soothe the pain... Raster Oct 2013 #110

Two sweet, beautiful ladies. No Vested Interest Oct 2013 #111

I am so sorry. No matter the age, losing a mom just sucks. Hugs to you. uppityperson Oct 2013 #112

My profound and sincere condolence to you and your family mazzarro Oct 2013 #113

I am so sorry idwiyo Oct 2013 #114

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I'm so sorry Yo_Mama Oct 2013 #116

I'm sorry I know how painful it is rbrnmw Oct 2013 #117

I'm so sorry. My heart aches for you and yours. myrna minx Oct 2013 #118

I'm very sorry--what a nice photo of the two of you. TwilightGardener Oct 2013 #119

So sorry for you - what a beautiful picture. nt flygal Oct 2013 #120

Mom's hard to lose Warpy Oct 2013 #121

My condolences. You seem to have been blessed with a wonderful mother. deurbano Oct 2013 #122

I am so sorry for your loss. Beautiful picture. LoisB Oct 2013 #123

Hugs and condolences to you and yours, nc4bo~ babylonsister Oct 2013 #124

What a tender picture. avaistheone1 Oct 2013 #126

You have my condolences. Treasure your memories and the love. SummerSnow Oct 2013 #127

May your grief be swift and leave you with many wonderful memories tavalon Oct 2013 #128

I'm so sorry, nc4bo... whathehell Oct 2013 #129

Bless your heart. Prayers and best wishes for the family. IrishAyes Oct 2013 #130

Your precious mom....... Sheepshank Oct 2013 #131

your mama has a sweet smile. I feel your misery roguevalley Oct 2013 #133

I'm so sorry. NealK Oct 2013 #134

My deepest condolences to you and your family! LongTomH Oct 2013 #136

I want to offer my sympathy Lifelong Protester Oct 2013 #137

My heart and prayers go out to you and your family emsimon33 Oct 2013 #138

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Sorry for your loss. ladyVet Oct 2013 #140

I'm so sorry vankuria Oct 2013 #141

My sympathies to you. Curmudgeoness Oct 2013 #142

I know what you're going through CitizenLeft Oct 2013 #143

May she rest in peace. Sorry for your loss Liberal_in_LA Oct 2013 #144

My sympathy to you. Losing your Ma is especially hard. Cleita Oct 2013 #145

Sorry for your loss, please take care of arthritisR_US Oct 2013 #146

My condolences..... jaysunb Oct 2013 #147

nc4bo....am sooo sorry. Feel your pain. glinda Oct 2013 #148

So very sorry dflprincess Oct 2013 #149

(((((((nc4bo)))))))... TeeYiYi Oct 2013 #150

I am so very sorry for your loss. bigwillq Oct 2013 #151

I'm very sorry for your loss... Phentex Oct 2013 #152

I'm so sorry nc4bo, KT2000 Oct 2013 #153

Please accept my condolences greatlaurel Oct 2013 #154

My condolences to you and your family. westerebus Oct 2013 #155

I'm so sorry...you seem to have had a wonderful relationship with her and that will provide many, okaawhatever Oct 2013 #156

i recently found this orleans Oct 2013 #157

<3 hugs blue14u Oct 2013 #158

I'm so sorry for your loss nc4bo cal04 Oct 2013 #159

I'm very sorry, nc4bo. frogmarch Oct 2013 #160

I'm so sorry, nc4bo. pacalo Oct 2013 #161

condolences RainDog Oct 2013 #163

God gave us memories... riverwalker Oct 2013 #164

Take care, nc4bo. NYC_SKP Oct 2013 #165

Bless your hearts, n4bo.. Cha Oct 2013 #166

Beautiful photo; my condolences to you. spooky3 Oct 2013 #167

So sorry for you loss. You will prevail. Kennah Oct 2013 #168

My condolences. I hope this helps donheld Oct 2013 #169

Awwww. I am so very sorry! Rhiannon12866 Oct 2013 #170

Condolences Heathen57 Oct 2013 #171

You have her nose lillypaddle Oct 2013 #172

Moments if saddness libdude Oct 2013 #173

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Sorry for your loss nc4bo. dotymed Oct 2013 #175

I'm so sorry, nc4bo. polly7 Oct 2013 #176

Bless your heart rucky Oct 2013 #177

So very sorry to hear about your mom. ClusterFreak Oct 2013 #178