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bluesbassman

(20,384 posts)
Wed Oct 23, 2013, 02:52 PM Oct 2013

Shithead of the Year:Men’s rights activist explains why it’s OK to not care about female rape victim [View all]

The leader of an online men’s right group defended comments made by his hand-picked successor, who said he lacked empathy for rape victims.

Paul Elam, founder of the website A Voice For Men, complained that feminists had conspired to underreport incidences of male rape and promote the victimhood of female rape victims.

“I don’t find it particularly hyperbolic for a man to say, ‘I’m not gonna give a damn about female rape victims anymore,’” Elam said in a video posted Sunday on YouTube. “They have tons of money, of law enforcement, of special programs funded by the government, of social consciousness – schools have Take Back The Night rallies, everything you can possibly think of.”

Elam was responding to a profile published Sunday by The Daily Beast about John “The Other” Hembling, who was quoted as saying in a video that he didn’t “give a f*** about rape victims anymore.”
http://www.rawstory.com/rs/2013/10/23/mens-rights-activist-explains-why-its-ok-to-not-care-about-female-rape-victims/


This is absolutely outrageous. These two "men" need STFU. I'm all for free speech, but this kind of misogynistic bullshit adds nothing to any discussion. Hell, for these two I'd support the return of public flogging.
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I would never wish rape on anyone Egnever Oct 2013 #1
Agreed. bluesbassman Oct 2013 #4
Disgusting. Don't these guys have any female relatives? Glorfindel Oct 2013 #2
Most likely divorced, PPO'd and disowned Demeter Oct 2013 #28
How disgusting. Rex Oct 2013 #3
Strange that it comes right on the heels of this story: Blue_Tires Oct 2013 #5
Who is this guy? What is Vice? joeybee12 Oct 2013 #6
Here ya go... PasadenaTrudy Oct 2013 #23
Vice is an otherwise decent magazine that does some pretty good reporting and profiles. NuclearDem Oct 2013 #24
McInnes also hasn't been associated with Vice for a number of years. nomorenomore08 Oct 2013 #29
who? frylock Oct 2013 #35
What a guy! City Lights Oct 2013 #7
Good grief! HappyMe Oct 2013 #8
This guy is an absolute arse. I would go flame him again, but I'm banned from his channel. Dash87 Oct 2013 #9
Those asshats don't speak for this man. Scuba Oct 2013 #10
It is important to point out HappyMe Oct 2013 #11
Good point HappyMe. bluesbassman Oct 2013 #15
True, but personally.... daleanime Oct 2013 #22
Yeah, I'm not sure HappyMe Oct 2013 #25
Those asshats aren't men. riqster Oct 2013 #12
These guys are so desperate and terrified. It's like it's oozing off them. Squinch Oct 2013 #13
exactly what I think Skittles Oct 2013 #17
Scratch an MRA, and a seething woman-hating rape apologist bleeds nt geek tragedy Oct 2013 #14
Being jealous that female victims seem to have more alleged "protection" or "resources" is no reason Triana Oct 2013 #16
Oh, Jesus - this part takes the cake for sure : bullwinkle428 Oct 2013 #18
If they're seriously upset over male rape, then they should join us feminists. NuclearDem Oct 2013 #19
Exactly. Rape is a horrific crime, regardless of the gender of the victim. BainsBane Oct 2013 #21
It's typical behavior for MRA's ismnotwasm Oct 2013 #20
Nobody HAS to care about anything. PeteSelman Oct 2013 #26
Elam = Male backwards tblue Oct 2013 #27
interesting catch... yuiyoshida Oct 2013 #36
If it was, it would be a staggering coincidence. Warren DeMontague Oct 2013 #38
Yeah, that Sandusky story got no publicity. WinkyDink Oct 2013 #30
I should have read this before lunch. Wait Wut Oct 2013 #31
wow Liberal_in_LA Oct 2013 #32
Do these fellows long for the good old days? Jack Rabbit Oct 2013 #33
More sobbing from the poor white male victim school. rivegauche Oct 2013 #34
As a father of two girls dakdirty Oct 2013 #37
K&R, bookmark for HOS nt stevenleser Oct 2013 #39
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