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pipi_k

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71. This would be
Sat Oct 26, 2013, 12:41 PM
Oct 2013

my dilemma as well.

Considering this whole topic from a more personal POV, I have a BIL who is in poor health.

This man, back in the 80s, and perhaps before that, ruined the lives of lots of people. He is a convicted child molester.

One of those little girls was my daughter.

I know that when he dies, I will have to make an appearance, at the wake at least, for the sake of my sister and my two nieces (he has four other daughters and a son from a previous marriage).

I will have to say "I'm so sorry for your loss", all the while wanting to do a goddamned fist pump and yell, "YEAH, you dirty pedophile pig bastard, I hope you rot in HELL!!!"

I know I probably shouldn't grave dance, even in private, but I also know that I'm only human, and I probably will. In private.

The only thing I'll really be sorry for is that my younger brother (same generation as my own two kids) died in 2011 and will not be here to gravedance along with us. He'll never know that the fucker who molested our little sister (as well as my daughter) no longer walks the earth.

So. Will I gravedance when Cheney's ticket gets cashed in? I dunno. But I certainly won't shed any tears for that asshole.

Who probably also has people who love/loved him, but I...and we here at DU...won't be among them.

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Today? postulater Oct 2013 #1
It could not happen mikeysnot Oct 2013 #2
grave dancing should be allowed then treestar Oct 2013 #3
Meanwhile, Siwsan Oct 2013 #4
Stand in line, and bring rubber boots! lastlib Oct 2013 #5
I've always said that I want the closest beer joint to his gravesite Thor_MN Oct 2013 #23
May he live a long life.... peace13 Oct 2013 #6
He's nothing. gulliver Oct 2013 #7
That would be more fun if he actually felt humilated. But he doesn't. dballance Oct 2013 #13
He fights the humiliation. gulliver Oct 2013 #16
My bubbly is waiting for the occasion malaise Oct 2013 #8
Don't hold your breath... greytdemocrat Oct 2013 #9
he does seem like a good candidate for sold-his-soul-to-the-devil Voice for Peace Oct 2013 #20
That's why we're all likely to smell a whiff of sulfur at that moment. calimary Oct 2013 #54
:) Voice for Peace Oct 2013 #69
The most satisfying shit I will ever take... Frank Cannon Oct 2013 #10
I hear you. Ilsa Oct 2013 #12
If he is cremated we might have to wear protective clothing because of toxic fallout. searchingforlight Oct 2013 #38
Shit, I'll dance in the streets. Lars39 Oct 2013 #11
He probably has the heart of a 20 year old and will out live all of us. Auntie Bush Oct 2013 #14
Cheney is a borg and really can't die kydo Oct 2013 #15
You see, he doesn't have a heart BlueToTheBone Oct 2013 #17
I'll be right beside with a bottle of Jack Daniels cursing his dark soul. heaven05 Oct 2013 #18
This POEM I wrote for Bush also applies to Cheney: Martin Eden Oct 2013 #19
Excellent! radiclib Oct 2013 #33
Perfect. IrishAyes Oct 2013 #50
NICE!!! calimary Oct 2013 #56
That's really good! LuvNewcastle Oct 2013 #58
quite poetic and true heaven05 Oct 2013 #67
I think you'll be part of a big international celebration Voice for Peace Oct 2013 #21
I hope it's on live tv. russspeakeasy Oct 2013 #22
I wouldn't. Chan790 Oct 2013 #24
Say Wha-a-a-a? 12AngryBorneoWildmen Oct 2013 #29
I have no idea. Chan790 Oct 2013 #31
Could that friend be the one he shot in the face? HarveyDarkey Oct 2013 #63
I suspect that pellet-faced lawyer wouldn't mind seeing Ilsa Oct 2013 #72
You are a sweetheart Chan790 Mira Oct 2013 #34
Me, too. His family shares the same sense of "empathy" that he does. calimary Oct 2013 #62
This would be pipi_k Oct 2013 #71
I know there's always sympathy for the family treestar Oct 2013 #76
Any friend of DICK's.... lastlib Oct 2013 #86
I was more thinking of grandkids, cousins and nephews/nieces. Chan790 Oct 2013 #87
Notice that the liberal media trots him out anytime he has an opinion Rain Mcloud Oct 2013 #25
When the media ever BECOMES liberal, I'll be surprised. loudsue Oct 2013 #43
I will Post On Facebook BillyRibs Oct 2013 #26
Same here. Hayabusa Oct 2013 #27
I'm-uh gonna party like it's 1999! 12AngryBorneoWildmen Oct 2013 #28
He Should Be Dead Already. He Was Given A Heart OUT OF TURN And Some Decent American Died. TheMastersNemesis Oct 2013 #30
Hear, hear! n/t Lugnut Oct 2013 #32
Can you imagine how nasty and ugly Dick Cheney's zombie will be? Hubert Flottz Oct 2013 #35
I don't want him to die radiclib Oct 2013 #36
THAT sounds just. annabanana Oct 2013 #78
Sounds to me like you are suggesting a party! JimboBillyBubbaBob Oct 2013 #37
The good die young.... MrMickeysMom Oct 2013 #39
Newspaper paranoid floyd Oct 2013 #40
I don't know it, but remember a headline (think it was "The Onion") mountain grammy Oct 2013 #44
I was living in Houston when Reagan was almost assassinated.. mountain grammy Oct 2013 #41
Heart FSogol Oct 2013 #42
K & R! dchill Oct 2013 #45
I think I will be sad and circumspect. AAO Oct 2013 #46
When Cheney's heart gives out... Lizzie Poppet Oct 2013 #47
What are you talking about? Dick Cheney has the heart of an innocent carefree child... Ikonoklast Oct 2013 #61
Hell, I've... DirtyDawg Oct 2013 #48
What makes anyone think he fredamae Oct 2013 #49
it cant happen blueknight Oct 2013 #51
It can't happen because the ticker he has -isn't- his. It's a loaner. HereSince1628 Oct 2013 #68
If only the good die young... sofa king Oct 2013 #52
Count me in. NV Whino Oct 2013 #53
I wouldn't mind break dancing on that day. bravenak Oct 2013 #55
In almost all cases I consider grave dancing to be in poor taste. The Velveteen Ocelot Oct 2013 #57
There are some real assholes that have died locally and you can see the major disconnect Baitball Blogger Oct 2013 #59
I'll have lost my example of how unfair life & death is. JohnnyRingo Oct 2013 #60
Unfortunately, Cheney is like the undead. BlueMTexpat Oct 2013 #64
Incredibly bad form. Orsino Oct 2013 #65
Having just recently lost my husband, I could arthritisR_US Oct 2013 #66
He has been and continues to be 2naSalit Oct 2013 #70
I'm sorry to admit it, but I will, too. Th1onein Oct 2013 #73
I won't grave dance BuddhaGirl Oct 2013 #74
Good answer. polichick Oct 2013 #75
He'll just get a new one. Filthy rich people can do that. n/t Cleita Oct 2013 #77
I will take note of his passing... liberalmuse Oct 2013 #79
I am sure you will have a lot of company. Paper Roses Oct 2013 #80
Whatever I do Mz Pip Oct 2013 #81
I won't. I loathe him, but I just don't grave dance. ever. cali Oct 2013 #82
I hope I live to see it n/t doc03 Oct 2013 #83
Maybe Cheney does have a redeeming quality by his trying to help BHO manage his administration indepat Oct 2013 #84
When Dick Cheney Dies, I Will Mourn ... Martin Eden Oct 2013 #85
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