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libdem4life

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43. This is a non-progressive post. You do what you do with your situation. My son was mildly learning
Thu Nov 21, 2013, 03:08 AM
Nov 2013

disabled and Gifted and Talented. There was No Program for him...none...zero...zilch. As a professional elementary teacher, I home schooled him for Kindergarten and we both had a ball. Since he was an "only", I bucked up and put him in 1st grade...and volunteered. He already knew how to read and to do math, and the classroom was boring and he had problems...even when I was there. Just restless, talking, goofing off, driving the teacher nuts...et al. 'She and I talked...as they were not teaching phonics at the time...and he knew phonics, and she suggested that he would not do well, as we both knew.

There was one other choice...start a Charter School for him and some of our friends were interested, for similar reasons. It was a daunting process, as there were none in California. The Director of the Preschool Coop...both Left Democrat...and I had to work within the community groups, the school district, and were required to get 100% of the teachers at one school before we could apply. We went to Sacramento and had to deal with an upstart Republican legislator who was the lead. We gagged, and went because if was necessary. It took us months, but finally public interest and one school gave us what we needed, and went with us 100%. The Charter was the first parent-initiated charter in the state.

Do I feel guilty as I see how the Republicans are now using it? Yes and no. I only had one child, brilliant and challenged, and he was failing and I and other parents tried hard to get the Gifted and Talented Program reinstated...no funds or teacher. It's easy if it's not your child.

It's still going strong...that was 20 years ago...and in our area, it's not what apparently seems the national conspiracy to gut public education, but can see the problem from a political standpoint.

When I taught in the 70s, it was different. The 90s were abysmal, at least in California. No phonics, calculators in 1st grade, no book reports (or reading requirements) as they didn't have the time to read them, no spelling lists, computer/spell check in 2nd grade on up. Enough to send any old time teacher into depression. He did poorly in Middle School and High School public schools for the same, basic reasons.

So, there are many stories...not all of them PC.

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I hate our education system. [View all] liberal_at_heart Nov 2013 OP
If possible, you should think about home school. My wife is a public school teacher. We home school kelly1mm Nov 2013 #1
I've thought about it before, but haven't done much research as of yet. It can be intimidating, but liberal_at_heart Nov 2013 #2
I'd look at all other options first. HuckleB Nov 2013 #25
I really don't mean to be snarky... mike_c Nov 2013 #3
We all understand that the curriculum needs to be accelerated and that students need to be liberal_at_heart Nov 2013 #6
thanks for clarifying.... mike_c Nov 2013 #15
I don't know who changed the way K-12 was taught but they need to go back to doing it the liberal_at_heart Nov 2013 #40
How did "Common Core" do that to your son that many years ago? HuckleB Nov 2013 #26
I think schools should learn from the tutoring academies - individualized learning works best Tigress DEM Nov 2013 #44
This is a bit too much for a 9th grade student Harmony Blue Nov 2013 #7
I began algebra in fifth grade, which was odd for the time. HuckleB Nov 2013 #27
It's not a race, despite what they claim. pnwmom Nov 2013 #35
Who said anything was a race? HuckleB Nov 2013 #39
The OP. pnwmom Nov 2013 #42
no sweetapogee Nov 2013 #9
I understand-- Boyles Law APPLIES to ideal gasses.... mike_c Nov 2013 #13
But the boy is in 9th grade -- he's just starting Algebra. n/t pnwmom Nov 2013 #10
Boyles Law is NOT algebra. former9thward Nov 2013 #16
Doesn't matter. Algebra is also multiplication and division. pnwmom Nov 2013 #20
Only one who is mathematically illiterate. former9thward Nov 2013 #24
1 + 1 is as simple as it gets. I'm not projecting anything. pnwmom Nov 2013 #31
Spot On. Awesome! nt adirondacker Nov 2013 #37
it's MEANT to be challenging.... mike_c Nov 2013 #30
Did you miss the part about this kid having autism? pnwmom Nov 2013 #32
That was back in the day. HuckleB Nov 2013 #28
Read her post again. Her son has a disability. duffyduff Nov 2013 #11
well, the fact remains that most of our students are quantitatively illiterate... mike_c Nov 2013 #12
Nothing you wrote is true Nevernose Nov 2013 #14
well, I'd invite you to our classrooms if that were possible to see for yourself.... mike_c Nov 2013 #21
the fact is not all kids learn the same or at the same rate. We need to quit treating them like liberal_at_heart Nov 2013 #38
You are entirely correct. former9thward Nov 2013 #18
No, they're not. HuckleB Nov 2013 #29
The function of Common Core is to break teacher tenure, bring in 30 and under teachers, CK_John Nov 2013 #4
+ 1000 femmocrat Nov 2013 #5
Can you explain your theory on this? HuckleB Nov 2013 #23
Well, I hope it goes ok bhikkhu Nov 2013 #8
Kids will attain the goals we set for them. Emelina Nov 2013 #17
Good post. HuckleB Nov 2013 #22
Common Core is not the greatest thing in the world, but it is not to blame for this. HuckleB Nov 2013 #19
You have LOTS of company. Smarmie Doofus Nov 2013 #33
That's grade school math. LeftyMom Nov 2013 #34
Isn't Boyle's law something to do with Constant corporate Pressure to produce Volumes of Gas with adirondacker Nov 2013 #36
I think Race to the Top may be even worse than No Child Left Behind. At least No Child Left Behind liberal_at_heart Nov 2013 #41
This is a non-progressive post. You do what you do with your situation. My son was mildly learning libdem4life Nov 2013 #43
liberal_at_heart masoncharest Nov 2013 #45
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