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[Bonobo]

133. At the biological level, that difference exists.

Now I know you do not like discussing of anything that reek of science or ego-psych or evolution anything, but look, the difference you are pointing to IS a biological difference in all animals.

Males insert penises into vaginas and that is that. There are not a lot of species where the females are the ones that act upon the male, except to perhaps "call them" or "attract them".

So if the male fantasy tends to be more active and the female tends to be more passive, it isn't very surprising.

So yeah, it is a difference. I acknowledge it. And in a fantasy, it is acted out in a safe way, with no one involved.

So that is where we are at. Recognizing a real difference in male and female biology.

I STILL don't think that there is any difference with regards to their relation to reality and real-life actions.