Porn Viewing: Do you know what you're talking about?

[Bennyboy]

120. well,

How do you think porn has been a problem in your sex life?

When married or in a long term relationship is when it has been a problem....

Old habits are hard to break.

Married sex is not porn sex even if it starts out as porn sex. Eventually the thrill is gone. And truly, in my lifetime, I have only had one or two "sexual soul mates" but never married either one. Both were during my harder drug phase of my life, and both were incredible sexual dynamos....(not surprisingly, both were crazy as shit).

As I got older things that were problematic at times in the past then became real problems....Add in some health problems and sex became a difficult endeavor which usually ended in disappointment and crushing depression. For me. I tried the pills and that was not a great thing and then I started taking Zoloft and lost all of my desire completely, even to please myself...(Fuck that shit)

I used porn to satisfy my needs and not my wife, because I did not need to perform to get myself off. I still had sexual desire but did not want to go through all of the negatives that came with couple sex.