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Egnever

(21,506 posts)
20. Sorry not buying
Mon Dec 9, 2013, 11:31 PM
Dec 2013

I have a little girl with two older brothers. She is 24/7 surrounded by boy stuff. Today we went to the local toy store and what was it she wanted? The pink dolls...

Not mildly interested.. Focused like a laser beam.

Having watched these three grow up so far with the idea we would not impose gender specifics cause we believed this stuff and thought it was unhealthy. What we have found instead is a lot of this stuff IS hardwired.

You have little to no effect on it whatsoever. People like what they like and I am quite sure if they found that marketing blue superheroes to little girls made them money they would do it in a heartbeat.

The reality is boys and girls are different and like different things, and the little girls tend to go for the pink baby dolls.

I guarantee you there is no rule in that store you cant buy the "boy" stuff for your little girl. But i bet you dollars to donuts that if you take your little girl to the store and let her pick what she wants with no imput from you she will buy one of the things that are traditional girl things 80% + of the time.

A wonderful video. I just love this little girl. Thanks for posting. lamp_shade Dec 2013 #1
My boys loved Dora the Explorer the TV show but Heather MC Dec 2013 #2
An important thing to note about toy stores is that they're responders more than creators. Donald Ian Rankin Dec 2013 #3
Where is the Barbie Liberation Organization when you need them? cprise Dec 2013 #4
Interesting Post..K&R...! KoKo Dec 2013 #5
There are a lot of great, educational, creative and science minded toys out there. Warren DeMontague Dec 2013 #6
Yes, there are. Sadly, they aren't at ToysRUS or the most major toy outlets. NYC_SKP Dec 2013 #8
I'll probably get flamed for this, but I haven't shopped at any of those in years. Warren DeMontague Dec 2013 #12
Sometime in the last three years or so I went into a Toys R Us. NYC_SKP Dec 2013 #14
The science toys Treant Dec 2013 #17
Although, again.. it may be that the parents and kids who are into that stuff Warren DeMontague Dec 2013 #18
My daughter at 7 loves pink. But she also likes science. Paulie Dec 2013 #7
Riley rocks! BainsBane Dec 2013 #9
Isn't she a doll? NYC_SKP Dec 2013 #10
Toys teach gender roles davidn3600 Dec 2013 #11
It's the parents that are to blame. nm rhett o rick Dec 2013 #13
Same deal with racism. davidn3600 Dec 2013 #16
As the father of a 2 year old female Egnever Dec 2013 #21
She says while holding lobodons Dec 2013 #15
Why do all the girls want princesses? FarCenter Dec 2013 #19
Sorry not buying Egnever Dec 2013 #20
^ Lets just agree that there are traditional girls and there are non-traditional girls AZ Progressive Dec 2013 #22
I think a greater, or additional, point has to do with what's sold in toy stores, period. NYC_SKP Dec 2013 #23
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