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In reply to the discussion: Anyone who looks at a woman lustfully... [View all]treestar
(82,383 posts)I have to admit I've never felt like I was being ogled, even when young. There was a thread asking about it and I couldn't recall an incident of feeling uncomfortable. I had a nice face, but not a big chest. All I can recall is older men talking to me on airplanes where they don't now, but that could be the culture of then vs. now.
I would think really good looking women would be the ones who have the problem. It's hard to feel sorry for beautiful women, but when I think about it, they would experience a great deal of attention due to looks, and then if aware of that, feel kind of like no one cares about the inner person? It would depend on the woman.
Ugly women find husbands all the time. Sometimes I think they have the best marriages. Their husbands aren't handsome, but are good guys. Maybe they check out a lot of other women and that's all they do? The beautiful ones they know won't go for them. Making that sort of just a pain for a beautiful young girls.
I knew someone was going to go there and imply that the feminists are ugly. That's always been one way to dismiss them, but it proves their very point. Ugly men are not just dismissed from society.