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In reply to the discussion: This message was self-deleted by its author [View all]Aerows
(39,961 posts)if not worse. It feels like shaming people that won't date them because of whatever perceived "hangup" or identity they have, instead of the fact that not everyone is going to want to be with everyone that is attracted to them. It's not racist to not be attracted to every Tom, Dick and Melinda that comes on to you, nor is it homophobic to not be attracted to every Tracy, Willie and Shannon that hist on you, either.
You are attracted to what you are attracted to. If the person you are chasing doesn't find you to be in that category, well, stay calm. It might not be your race, sexuality, or even your looks. You might just have an awful personality. Feel better?
Edit: Didn't mean this for you Pinto bean. Replied in the wrong place. Meant to reply to the comment under yours.