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In reply to the discussion: This message was self-deleted by its author [View all]arthritisR_US
(7,812 posts)aren't attracted to me in any romantic or intimate way and the females I'm similarly not attracted to in any physical way. It doesn't make my gay mates heterophobic because they don't want to date me. I have taken them as my "date" for past major functions because we enjoy each others friendship and company. We were safe dates for each other.
I don't think a man who doesn't want to date a transgender is transphobic. The straight man would have difficulty with sexual intimacy when and if the time came so they would just be setting them self up for frustration/disappointment.
I have met guys who don't have close female friends because to them you are either dating and in a close intimate relationship with a woman or nothing at all. Lots of variance to people's comfort zones.