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In reply to the discussion: Two Black Women Walk Into The Grocery Store . . . [View all]Warpy
(114,544 posts)52. A variation on the theme is the counter clerk sauntering out of the back room
and trying to wait on the white woman (me) first. Well, I'm never in a big enough hurry to be rude, so I gesture to the other people who were first and tell him other people were first, start there, I'll wait my turn. I'm not nasty about it, it's just a simple statement of fact.
The shock I've seen on black and Hispano faces tells me that damned few people out there would prefer not being rude.
So yeah, I recognize this kind of white privilege and monkey wrench it whenever I can. I can't imagine how infuriating this day to day bullshit is to people who don't have my Irish hide.
Nobody has ever done the bad check song and dance when I've been there. Then again, I live in the rainbow part of town, we're all suspects.
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What a great woman and a lesson well-taught..Thanks for posting. Teachable moment..n/t
monmouth3
Jan 2014
#2
I had a conversation about white privilege with my 20-yr-old daughter the other day
lapislzi
Jan 2014
#13
Hell, go down to Sicily, girlfriend! It's a short row to the African littoral...!
MADem
Jan 2014
#79
I'm the kind of person who speaks up too, and I see soooooo many who don't.
BlancheSplanchnik
Jan 2014
#24
What the hell? Did she think that her racist comments would make you swoon or something?
Number23
Jan 2014
#53
Love it! I'm white with a black granddaughter and I'd probably rip anybody
sinkingfeeling
Jan 2014
#70
I am white and I totally get this - yet you could tell white conservatives this
MillennialDem
Jan 2014
#94