I didn't have a chance to objectify my wife this evening....

[VanillaRhapsody]

10. Perhaps therein lies your problem...

In social philosophy, objectification means treating a person as a thing, without regard to their dignity.

According to the philosopher Martha Nussbaum, a person is objectified if they are treated:[1]

as a tool for another's purposes (instrumentality);
as if lacking in agency or self-determination (denial of autonomy, inertness);
as if owned by another (ownership);
as if interchangeable (fungibility);
as if permissible to damage or destroy (violability);
as if there is no need for concern for their feelings and experiences (denial of subjectivity).


Maybe if sex with you didn't equal ^^^^^ that as you are suggesting here....she might be more attracted to you...