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49. Exactly!!!

Reply to Erich Bloodaxe BSN (Reply #44)

Fri Mar 21, 2014, 03:43 PM

Mar 2014

Imagine the outrage if they did this with boys and the moms became their "girlfriends".

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'You are married to the Lord and your daddy is your boyfriend': [View all] Beacool Mar 2014 OP

"Daddy is your boyfriend" LittleBlue Mar 2014 #1

so cheating on god and having a boyfriend on the side is ok? Whisp Mar 2014 #7

It's creepy and disgusting. Beacool Mar 2014 #14

Being Atheist Control-Z Mar 2014 #111

Yes, for a grown man to give a child what looks like a wedding band is creepy. Beacool Mar 2014 #115

The "girls in prom dresses carrying a cross" thing was mega-disturbing as well Ken Burch Mar 2014 #183

did you notice the girls were barefoot demigoddess Mar 2014 #189

Hadn't caught that. Gives it even more of a "Manos" or Nordic death metal video feeling. n/t. Ken Burch Mar 2014 #191

These freaks make Nordic Death Metal wholesome. blackspade Mar 2014 #197

Yes! Freakin creepy. OnionPatch Mar 2014 #206

I think they are wearing some type of sandal with thin straps. mrsadm Mar 2014 #230

I think they don't want them to break their ankles jmowreader Mar 2014 #242

I guess as long as he's your Dad it's okay azurnoir Mar 2014 #138

And if daddy's not available, there's always Youth Pastor Bob Ken Burch Mar 2014 #192

Maybe the repeated cuckoldry is what makes god such a pissy, murderous psychopath? Tom Ripley Mar 2014 #179

sounds like a perfect setup for molestation eShirl Mar 2014 #9

That was my first thought: some creep is going to read about this and join up for the wrong reasons. tofuandbeer Mar 2014 #193

I know. Beacool Mar 2014 #10

I hope that one day the girls will take that cross Whisp Mar 2014 #18

Amen to that........ Beacool Mar 2014 #20

Then they need to club their mothers, who allow this shit to take place. blueamy66 Mar 2014 #29

the daddies are in closer vicinity and it's creepy as freakin hell Whisp Mar 2014 #34

Oh, I agree with you. blueamy66 Mar 2014 #37

this ceremony is not about moms being their sons girlfriend. Whisp Mar 2014 #42

No, the mother isn't to blame, but, I would love to hear how they rationalize their blueamy66 Mar 2014 #74

For the most part, the moms were brainwashed into this from birth. JoeyT Mar 2014 #88

I don't think that they are awful. I just wondered why they allow this to occur? blueamy66 Mar 2014 #92

If they catch you in the back seat trying to pick her locks, they're gonna send you back to mother AtheistCrusader Mar 2014 #142

They are all just fundies, the moms and dads snooper2 Mar 2014 #210

Not to this ceremonial level exboyfil Mar 2014 #202

Absolutely! get the red out Mar 2014 #89

+1 million geardaddy Mar 2014 #108

I thought you were gonna say Ken Burch Mar 2014 #186

I'm reminded of a scene from the Simpsons: Initech Mar 2014 #231

plenty of women allow themselves to be "given away" by their father to their husband Skittles Mar 2014 #190

Ewwww, indeed! alcina Mar 2014 #141

That's not inviting incest at all. Oh no, never! nomorenomore08 Mar 2014 #163

I thought dating your daddy was an Ozarks kind of thing. Ken Burch Mar 2014 #185

Those things have always registered 10/10 on the creepy factor... Aristus Mar 2014 #2

What shocked me is that it apparently is going on in 48 states. Beacool Mar 2014 #12

I am surprised that you are shocked by this. It is the basic mentality of a frighteningly large StevieM Mar 2014 #240

We seem to be regressing to another era. Beacool Mar 2014 #243

This is so effing creepy I have no words ... Arugula Latte Mar 2014 #3

That is some sick shit! polichick Mar 2014 #4

It's going to make for some very unhappy wives at some point PDJane Mar 2014 #5

Not to worry. Skidmore Mar 2014 #11

They are attempting to brainwash them young. Beacool Mar 2014 #23

Kids like the Duggars have no other frame of reference. They are brainwashed from birth (eom) StevieM Mar 2014 #237

The idea is for them NOT to enjoy it. redqueen Mar 2014 #30

They'll just turn into the everything but kind of girls leftynyc Mar 2014 #116

Ewww. LiberalAndProud Mar 2014 #6

There's no "creepy" smiley face AleksS Mar 2014 #8

This would be the smiley face of my choice to express the creepiness level of this article. Beacool Mar 2014 #24

how about this one hollysmom Mar 2014 #25

Yikes!!! Beacool Mar 2014 #51

"Purity Culture Is Rape Culture" LadyHawkAZ Mar 2014 #13

Well said!! Beacool Mar 2014 #36

I have seen pictures from the 18th Century that show some social reasons Sognefjord Mar 2014 #156

To this day, parts of the world still arrange marriages for girls. Beacool Mar 2014 #177

When I was 13 my father was the one who made the appointment LadyHawkAZ Mar 2014 #172

We are blessed to have been born in this era and to a Western nation. Beacool Mar 2014 #178

You were lucky in that sense. Plenty of girls have fathers who claim sovereignty over StevieM Mar 2014 #239

That's the first thing I thought of when I read this. mountain grammy Mar 2014 #145

+1000 Tom Ripley Mar 2014 #149

This is Colorado City, AZ, right ? Trajan Mar 2014 #15

This isn't going on in the Catholic Church. blueamy66 Mar 2014 #33

The Catholic Church has a different brand of creepy Arugula Latte Mar 2014 #67

Wow. blueamy66 Mar 2014 #71

Nuns have been called "Brides of Christ" for a long time -- it's a very common term. Arugula Latte Mar 2014 #75

I never said that you had to respect my Church. blueamy66 Mar 2014 #85

The whole body of Church members is symbolically called the Bride of Christ. pnwmom Mar 2014 #106

Never heard that one either....despite 13 years of Catholic school education blueamy66 Mar 2014 #118

Don't know how you missed that then. Even Wikipedia knows about it. pnwmom Mar 2014 #122

Interesting. I'll read up on it. blueamy66 Mar 2014 #126

Not your fault. AtheistCrusader Mar 2014 #134

I was taught by Franciscan nuns in Catholic school. Mr.Bill Mar 2014 #78

Yeah, the nuns that taught me didn't wear any wedding rings. blueamy66 Mar 2014 #81

I'm afraid the change is glacial, imperceptible to most people with normal life spans Warpy Mar 2014 #117

Sorry, but LynnTTT Mar 2014 #144

Never heard of nuns as brides? whopis01 Mar 2014 #159

Perhaps I was just remarking about the Catholic Church Trajan Mar 2014 #95

Perhaps you didn't need to respond....if only to throw a dig out there... blueamy66 Mar 2014 #97

Perhaps I need to respond according to my own motivations Trajan Mar 2014 #162

I was raised Catholic (now atheist), but I look back and see the it was a nice part of growing up. tofuandbeer Mar 2014 #195

These nut jobs are not Catholic. Beacool Mar 2014 #40

Exactly. blueamy66 Mar 2014 #72

I think that every male in my Catholic family would have been horrified. Beacool Mar 2014 #76

As creepy as this is seveneyes Mar 2014 #16

Yes, it does LadyHawkAZ Mar 2014 #19

Yes, same mindset seveneyes Mar 2014 #21

Agree get the red out Mar 2014 #96

Correct. 840high Mar 2014 #176

Really freaky and creepy! n/t RKP5637 Mar 2014 #17

religion LOL n/t KG Mar 2014 #22

that cross carrying picture is completely insane NightWatcher Mar 2014 #26

Here: jsr Mar 2014 #35

these crazy religionists make me a stronger atheist on a daily basis NightWatcher Mar 2014 #41

That pic makes me fear that they are going to burn one of them at the cross. Beacool Mar 2014 #43

And did you notice the cross carriers are barefoot? AleksS Mar 2014 #70

Oddly enough, that's the first thing I noticed. Sheldon Cooper Mar 2014 #87

Me too! get the red out Mar 2014 #98

And bare feet geardaddy Mar 2014 #124

Why the need to carry a crucifix? blueamy66 Mar 2014 #27

If I'm not mistaken... Beartracks Mar 2014 #199

Okay. You are right. blueamy66 Mar 2014 #200

Not "better," just more accurate. :) Beartracks Mar 2014 #201

The cross symbolizes the men they must slave under the rest of their lives. Kablooie Mar 2014 #224

While I don't trust the Daily Mail, this story seems sadly to be confirmed by several sources LeftishBrit Mar 2014 #28

this 'ceremony' has been around for years... Whisp Mar 2014 #38

There isn't a snowball's chance in a self-cleaning oven... riqster Mar 2014 #31

Sounds like it, doesn't it? Beacool Mar 2014 #45

I dunno about "normal". riqster Mar 2014 #54

LOL!!! Beacool Mar 2014 #65

I know someone who did this to/with one of his daughters. progressoid Mar 2014 #32

Seriously? Beacool Mar 2014 #47

I'm not sure. progressoid Mar 2014 #66

Maybe they hold these balls every March. Beacool Mar 2014 #113

Right before prom season? exboyfil Mar 2014 #203

I don't know. Beacool Mar 2014 #213

Seriously sick. nt LumosMaxima Mar 2014 #39

Totally creepy and patriarchical. Erich Bloodaxe BSN Mar 2014 #44

Exactly!!! Beacool Mar 2014 #49

Excellent point. The pressure is on the girls far more than the boys. StevieM Mar 2014 #241

The double standard has always angered me. Beacool Mar 2014 #244

Not even a kiss huh? Nika Mar 2014 #46

*pukes* sakabatou Mar 2014 #48

Starkly perverse. Feral Child Mar 2014 #50

Yes, and they vow only to have anal sex until marriage because how else can they valerief Mar 2014 #52

you are not far from the truth plcdude Mar 2014 #61

Not sex for the female but certainly sex for the male, and that's all that matters, after all. valerief Mar 2014 #63

From what I remember of the purity nuts, JoeyT Mar 2014 #100

Unless get the red out Mar 2014 #110

Purity nuts, purity balls... something is happening lingusitically here that is AtheistCrusader Mar 2014 #136

Ah, yes, "The Loophole" by Garfunkel and Oates. Ikonoklast Mar 2014 #164

Yup. Oakenshield Mar 2014 #53

The worst part is the monthly virginity check CBGLuthier Mar 2014 #55

Yuck. nt Democracyinkind Mar 2014 #56

This strikes me as incredibly creepy. Chan790 Mar 2014 #57

from 2008 -- BUT -- it shows the problem with 'purity balls' - they don't use contraception xchrom Mar 2014 #58

This part is worrisome, but I'm glad that they are not keeping their pledges. Beacool Mar 2014 #73

My ex grew up in a very religious part of rural TN. jeff47 Mar 2014 #102

Their parents are failing them get the red out Mar 2014 #104

The daddy is the vagina police mercuryblues Mar 2014 #139

So these pledges give the appearance of 'purity' siligut Mar 2014 #214

Yikes CFLDem Mar 2014 #59

For a far superior source than the Daily Fail read Jessica Valenti's 2010 book "The Purity Myth" alp227 Mar 2014 #60

I would LOVE to see a study done of these girls as they go through their lives. I will bet that Squinch Mar 2014 #62

Only for the sickest of the sick fucks. Blue Owl Mar 2014 #64

Creepy and pathetic. Vashta Nerada Mar 2014 #68

Creepshow! MineralMan Mar 2014 #69

".. sex is the most awful, filthy thing on earth .." Tierra_y_Libertad Mar 2014 #77

That is so fucking deranged. Jamastiene Mar 2014 #79

None here want to know what I think of this nadinbrzezinski Mar 2014 #80

Wow, this is creepy on so many levels I don't know know where to begin... catbyte Mar 2014 #82

I read a story about this one time get the red out Mar 2014 #83

Elizabeth Smart has spoken out against "purity culture" XemaSab Mar 2014 #174

... Cali_Democrat Mar 2014 #84

And the girls are okay with it PumpkinAle Mar 2014 #86

Among other things, 'girls/women' have been/continue to be treated as property, elleng Mar 2014 #90

I had a parents' blessing at my wedding. LiberalAndProud Mar 2014 #165

Very nice. elleng Mar 2014 #168

Creepy.... South_Street Mar 2014 #91

The roots are in the same freakout from the 60s when teenagers "did their own thing". Spitfire of ATJ Mar 2014 #93

I don't understand what you are referring to. Ilsa Mar 2014 #232

Back in the day there were a lot of runaways... Spitfire of ATJ Mar 2014 #236

Isn't there a show on Lifetime called Preacher's Daughter? blueamy66 Mar 2014 #94

My mother once wondered how many bad marriages result from an obsession with "purity" dflprincess Mar 2014 #99

Hey daddy, I got your purity balls right here. geardaddy Mar 2014 #101

SO CREEPY!!!! La Lioness Priyanka Mar 2014 #103

This is just sick. EC Mar 2014 #105

This is wrong on so many levels. William769 Mar 2014 #107

Got to be some of the sickest shit the world has ever produced FiveGoodMen Mar 2014 #109

Ewww Flatpicker Mar 2014 #112

Creepy. City Lights Mar 2014 #114

Stepford redux. Religion makes a lot of people do a lot of totally fucked up weird shit to kids. Zorra Mar 2014 #119

I think I read some statistics on this a year or so ago.... Swede Atlanta Mar 2014 #120

If you feel this strongly that you need to "protect" your teen daughter's chastity NickB79 Mar 2014 #121

Well said. Beacool Mar 2014 #155

I'm surprised that so many of you are surprised OldHippieChick Mar 2014 #123

No one is under any illusion that we have true gender equality, Beacool Mar 2014 #154

Is the second photo an old photo? Is that Jessica Simpson? joeybee12 Mar 2014 #125

This really creeps me out. The Traveler Mar 2014 #127

Bill Maher breaks down the creepiness of this: JBoy Mar 2014 #128

The concept has been around at least 30 years or so. Lars39 Mar 2014 #129

Beyond creepy Prophet 451 Mar 2014 #130

Chattel blkmusclmachine Mar 2014 #131

This PB speaker likes to make clothes out of duct tape. valerief Mar 2014 #132

apparently the 2naSalit Mar 2014 #133

Sex with goats Aldo Leopold Mar 2014 #135

What is the 'purity' xxqqqzme Mar 2014 #137

Fuck religion. AtheistCrusader Mar 2014 #140

Creepy... deathrind Mar 2014 #143

About as creepy as it gets. mountain grammy Mar 2014 #146

Leave it to Protestants to come up with something more fucked up than nuns Tom Ripley Mar 2014 #147

Jesus on a trailer hitch wryter2000 Mar 2014 #148

Why, if they think this is such a good thing, don't they do this for boys? nt SunSeeker Mar 2014 #150

Precisely. AtheistCrusader Mar 2014 #151

Men are different. Men are better. The bible says so. valerief Mar 2014 #221

This is way too creepy for me Gothmog Mar 2014 #152

This just makes my skin crawl.. Peacetrain Mar 2014 #153

Creepy as hell Aerows Mar 2014 #157

To have and to hold" is a legal phrase used in deeds and other property transfer. no_hypocrisy Mar 2014 #158

this reminds me of 'rule of thumb' Whisp Mar 2014 #166

And what are they doing for boys? HipChick Mar 2014 #160

They are challenged by the fathers to see how many babes they can bang before marriage. Kablooie Mar 2014 #223

sick shit. spanone Mar 2014 #161

That's a whole truckload of fucked up, right there. Warren DeMontague Mar 2014 #167

These poor girls. ellie Mar 2014 #169

Daddy's primary concern is the state of his daughters privates. creepy and wrong Liberal_in_LA Mar 2014 #170

Sicker and creepier than a Craigslist personal ad Blue Owl Mar 2014 #171

OK so to reiterate Christian propaganda.... Initech Mar 2014 #173

creepy shit d_b Mar 2014 #175

Christianity is a sexist religion RainDog Mar 2014 #180

So when a girl does get married mindwalker_i Mar 2014 #181

What often happens is that they are bullied into giving the baby up for adoption. StevieM Mar 2014 #238

This is seriously sick and perverted. KauaiK Mar 2014 #182

The article sucks for saying that this shit is "sweeping America". It's not. nt Captain Stern Mar 2014 #184

Sounds like a "death metal" lyric, doesn't it? n/t. Ken Burch Mar 2014 #187

How much longer before theyre wearing bonnets or burkas? ErikJ Mar 2014 #188

...possibly with bondage gear underneath... Ken Burch Mar 2014 #194

Maybe a chastity belt? Beacool Mar 2014 #220

...covered with poisoned spikes, most likely... Ken Burch Mar 2014 #235

As a father of a little girl, I find this disgusting. blackspade Mar 2014 #196

Which two states don't have them? wickerwoman Mar 2014 #198

Nothing strange TopHatCat Mar 2014 #204

This stuff really freaks me out. NaturalHigh Mar 2014 #205

Creepy stuff. Talk about perversion. n/t malthaussen Mar 2014 #207

Tell me� did their FATHERS remain "pure" before they fucked their mothers? MrMickeysMom Mar 2014 #208

And when those raging hormones hit these virgins; greiner3 Mar 2014 #209

Slavery TNNurse Mar 2014 #211

Daddy's my boyfriend? svpadgham Mar 2014 #212

Sick, but funny........ Beacool Mar 2014 #218

SO creepy in that it implies the father has 'first rights.' A better Dad always respects her choices joanbarnes Mar 2014 #215

Yes, it sounds like the royal "right of the first night". Beacool Mar 2014 #219

Oh, yuk. leftyladyfrommo Mar 2014 #216

I think this is called "grooming." nt tea and oranges Mar 2014 #217

Where are the mothers in all of this? Kablooie Mar 2014 #222

gross tk2kewl Mar 2014 #225

A former boss did this with one daughter... rosesaylavee Mar 2014 #226

Cult like and controlling tooeyeten Mar 2014 #227

Who's Your Daddy? BodieTown Mar 2014 #228

Always been there tooeyeten Mar 2014 #229

My guess is that the little girls are excited about playing dress-up Ilsa Mar 2014 #233

I wonder what goes through the minds of these girls' brothers? Ilsa Mar 2014 #234