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CaliforniaPeggy

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53. Forgive me for disagreeing with you...

Wed Apr 2, 2014, 01:31 AM

Apr 2014

But I don't think she was.

She died in her sleep from a heart attack...what caused it? Well, we don't really know. I was a critical care nurse some years ago, so I may have some ideas here....

Perhaps she had a little clot of fat that dislodged and landed in a critical place in one of the blood vessels of her heart. If that happened, and the place it landed was critical for the blood flow to a major muscle of her heart, then she would have died very quickly...

Those accidents do happen, and there's really almost no way to stop them. Diet and medications can and do help.

I don't know what happened......this is just my hypothesis.

I hope I haven't overstepped my place in offering this.

If I have upset you, please tell me, and I will delete my post here.

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