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Erich Bloodaxe BSN

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9. The first few women I dated were about a decade or so older than me.

Thu May 8, 2014, 09:07 AM

May 2014

I think there are real reasons as to why it's tougher to make age-differential relationships last, but if you can do it, age is just a number. (With the caveat, of course, that you're both actually adults. Gotta wait until both people's brains have fully developed. Which is also why I'd raise the minimum age limit for military service to 21.)

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This message was self-deleted by its author [View all] fried eggs May 2014 OP

Oh good. bemildred May 2014 #1

...grief. Erich Bloodaxe BSN May 2014 #4

lolz. ..nt TeeYiYi May 2014 #90

I know it's early, but you get the dumbest post of the day. morningfog May 2014 #2

What part do you disagree with? fried eggs May 2014 #3

You see evil in everything don't you! upaloopa May 2014 #5

The first few women I dated were about a decade or so older than me. Erich Bloodaxe BSN May 2014 #9

Your now wife was of legal age, a 13 year avebury May 2014 #14

Not everything is sexual upaloopa May 2014 #20

they were not alone. Someone took the photo larkrake May 2014 #70

You missed the point fried eggs May 2014 #27

Because most 20 year old men are rapists? blueamy66 May 2014 #28

No. Maybe he is, maybe he isn't. For both of their sakes, fried eggs May 2014 #35

They weren't alone and I have no response to the second part of your post. blueamy66 May 2014 #43

No, because you have to assume all 20-year old males are loaded. Jackpine Radical May 2014 #36

And then let's jump to the assumption that all 20 year old males will act upon it... blueamy66 May 2014 #42

Actually, I was just playing with the gun metaphor, Jackpine Radical May 2014 #92

Gotcha. blueamy66 May 2014 #100

Who is the rapist? The man or the photographer? arcane1 May 2014 #33

Perhaps a nice burqa and a separate room for the womenfolk LadyHawkAZ May 2014 #41

Nice post, SATAN! chrisa May 2014 #45

I think it's better to err on the side of caution. fried eggs May 2014 #47

Like having an older brother present, maybe? n/t LadyHawkAZ May 2014 #50

so U approve of a nice burqa and a separate room for the womenfolk then?? lunasun May 2014 #66

Nonsense. Feral Child May 2014 #89

Precisely jberryhill May 2014 #53

You miss the point upaloopa May 2014 #60

You do know women and girls get raped in all sort of situations, don't you? Sleeping in bed at night uppityperson May 2014 #67

I don't understand your point, how does this have anything to do with rape culture? nt. polly7 May 2014 #86

Uhhhh let me think.... StarryNite May 2014 #93

You went off the rails when you wrote "likewise." morningfog May 2014 #24

Statuatory rape can be emotionally devastating and fried eggs May 2014 #29

Now I know you are just looking for flames. I wish you luck. morningfog May 2014 #48

You don't think statuatory rape is devastating? fried eggs May 2014 #52

No you aren't. Reap what you sow. morningfog May 2014 #54

Is this in reference to something? el_bryanto May 2014 #6

Yes. The post on Will Smith's daughter Erich Bloodaxe BSN May 2014 #10

Nothing wrong with a little prudery el_bryanto May 2014 #13

eeeeeesh Whisp May 2014 #7

Let me put it this way: Brigid May 2014 #8

He'd take a pic and post it on twitter? nt Erich Bloodaxe BSN May 2014 #11

Maybe my brother would post a pic the 20-year-old's face . . . Brigid May 2014 #16

Out of curiosity, have you seen the pics in question? Erich Bloodaxe BSN May 2014 #17

Yes, I've seen the pics. Brigid May 2014 #19

Glad I don't live in that 'part of the country' Erich Bloodaxe BSN May 2014 #22

And the one who assaulted the kid would get away with it. blueamy66 May 2014 #32

sad areas of hopped up violence and misplaced anger lunasun May 2014 #72

Why would he "do" it? blueamy66 May 2014 #30

Sounds like a shitty place to live. arcane1 May 2014 #79

remind me to stay the fuck away from your shithole state/county/city/outhouse frylock May 2014 #84

Sounds like a very violent part of the country. NCTraveler May 2014 #96

there wasn't anything in that picture that suggested they were "in bed" together.... VanillaRhapsody May 2014 #15

your brother would be rightfully be spending time in prison frylock May 2014 #83

Remember there is no such thing as an "accidental" discharge hack89 May 2014 #12

This message was self-deleted by its author Brigid May 2014 #18

Message auto-removed Name removed May 2014 #21

I don't think the part people think is sick is the picture taking Erich Bloodaxe BSN May 2014 #23

Now what the hell is this about... Agschmid May 2014 #25

He was referring to the 'purity balls' post. Erich Bloodaxe BSN May 2014 #26

God lord, I'm glad I'm out of the loop on all this. Agschmid May 2014 #31

Publicly claiming ownership of a young girl's hymen until it is formally transfered to the new owner arcane1 May 2014 #44

A 20-year-old young man is similar to a loaded gun? gollygee May 2014 #34

Why roll the dice? fried eggs May 2014 #38

Did the whole purity ball paranoia thing jump across the aisle to democrats while I was napping? JVS May 2014 #37

I think we already have a couple all men are rapist threads going, maybe you should have posted that dilby May 2014 #39

I think this is the first one I have ever seen here. NCTraveler May 2014 #97

Never pet a burning dog, and don't spit into the wind. chrisa May 2014 #40

Dumbest thing I've read all day. Iggo May 2014 #46

This will likely be your daily dumbest read. Agschmid May 2014 #58

the bar has been set pretty high with this post.. frylock May 2014 #88

That one has much subthread win. Iggo May 2014 #99

NOw you add the pitbull! TROLLOL! morningfog May 2014 #49

Females need to be controlled because men can't control their animalistic impulses jberryhill May 2014 #51

Hyperbole. "Hi Mois, I love you but I don't want you lying down next to my daughter. fried eggs May 2014 #59

"Especially with a camera" jberryhill May 2014 #63

shirtless=rapist? and having a chaperone means more likely to rape? Oh. uppityperson May 2014 #68

Did you just use the word "Hyperbole"? lol nt. NCTraveler May 2014 #98

I'm confused... HooptieWagon May 2014 #55

Don't forget the pitbull! Agschmid May 2014 #57

It's hard to tell. In_The_Wind May 2014 #81

Flamebait crap OP. Just FYI... And of course only IMHO. Agschmid May 2014 #56

I agree that letting a 13-year-old girl hang around LittleBlue May 2014 #61

Excellent satire! PeaceNikki May 2014 #62

Gawd, I hope that's what this is. Comrade Grumpy May 2014 #78

I have to agree... troublesome_mind May 2014 #64

You shouldn't post stupid things on message boards, likewise Codeine May 2014 #65

You have outdone yourself this time. That was difficult. Congratulations. eom uppityperson May 2014 #69

Maybe you shouldn't allow a 20 year old man to "hang around" with a 20 year old girl, either. hughee99 May 2014 #71

I'm finding the level of distaste for these photos very curious. polly7 May 2014 #73

Jada Smith her mother lunasun May 2014 #74

Oh, come on. Orrex May 2014 #75

This message was self-deleted by its author Iggo May 2014 #76

I'm sure many of you remember this subthread. randome May 2014 #77

Hi! 20 year old male here. DEMTough May 2014 #80

are you compelled to have sex with 13 year-olds by merely being in their presence? frylock May 2014 #82

Probably shouldn't leave a computer around a shit-stirrer, either. 1000words May 2014 #85

It must be horrible going through life with such a sick view of humanity. /nt Marr May 2014 #87

IF something like that happened, it wouldn't be the family's fault or the 13-year-old girl's fault. moriah May 2014 #91

Scrambled Eggs. nt. NCTraveler May 2014 #94

Purity Balls are creepy.... StarryNite May 2014 #95

Why is that exactly? Caxton May 2014 #101