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In reply to the discussion: This message was self-deleted by its author [View all]CreekDog
(46,192 posts)first, you actually posted this crap expecting to be seen as the victim and that people would take your side.
second, you actually called the cops and turned out to be absolutely wrong.
third, you seem clueless about why your tenant might not want her child spending time with the landlady (though the landlady doesn't seem to be interested in having the ten year old around...)
and you are utterly clueless about how you sound to most people and utterly at a loss to find anything in your actions to question or perhaps learn from.
your observational skills are terrible, your judgment is lacking and while none of us is perfect, what you've done is decided that despite all this, everybody else is wrong, you aren't changing.
you're self righteously wrong. and there's no prospect that you won't go doing stupid stuff like this all over again.
you have probably 50 people saying you're wrong, most in this thread explaining various problems with what you did, some pretty strident (but so were you), some very restrained and detailed explanations and reasoning.
but for you? screw all that. NOBODY who tells you that you did anything wrong can be even 1% right, you've discounted them all.
so what you'll do is keep effing up like you did to this poor family.
i understand that not everybody here is right. but that applies to you too.
your confidence far exceeds the reality of the situation.