What Makes A Slut? The Only Rule, It Seems, Is Being Female - Guardian

[Bonobo]

52. I am happy to have this conversation.

And you already admitted that the "shaming" incident involved my very brief comment "TMI".

Now let me relate what your self-deleted comment involved -and what prompted me to say "TMI".

You went into explicit detail about how you enjoy giving and receiving oral sex -to which I replied "TMI"...because it was. So it is not an issue of "shaming" your sexuality so much as calling you out on a really inappropriately detailed sexual story.

Imagine for a moment, if you will, that I posted about how I like to get blowjobs from women and then go down on them. How long do you suppose it would be before one of you or your friends called me out as a misogynist who likes to shame women? After all, you think that "sucking dicks" is itself a comment which is all about "putting women in their place."

Will you really be so dishonest as to pretend that my post about liking blowjobs would not be met by attack? Forgive me if i find that suggestion untenable.

So yes, you telling a poster who is into BDSM that he gave "too much information" is EXACTLY the same as what I said to you.

As for ignore, no thanks, but you are welcome to put ME on ignore. Frankly considering how much you ask me to put you on ignore, I can't fathom why you don't just do that to me.