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handmade34

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90. not ok...

Mon Aug 11, 2014, 07:57 PM

Aug 2014

no argument, just very poor wording and you would be wise to take to heart the advice you are getting here... delete your post or reword it...

your post is akin to blaming the victim

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Message auto-removed [View all] Name removed Aug 2014 OP

What kind of a post is this. bravenak Aug 2014 #1

Message auto-removed Name removed Aug 2014 #4

Be nice. bravenak Aug 2014 #9

Then you need to work on your delivery. cyberswede Aug 2014 #15

No shit. blueamy66 Aug 2014 #24

Oh, come on. Do you go to victims of a car accident and say, "Really, Mr. Whomever? Hit by a car?" merrily Aug 2014 #35

No shit. Really Mr. Jones? Stabbed by a knife? leftstreet Aug 2014 #52

then why don't you rephrase your headline orleans Aug 2014 #67

Suicide is very, very hard on survivors AgingAmerican Aug 2014 #93

My stepdad did it in my house when I was 15 in front of my mother. bravenak Aug 2014 #100

So very sorry for your family, bravenak. sheshe2 Aug 2014 #116

My sympathies to you too. bravenak Aug 2014 #122

Clinical depression is a REAL disease. Suicide is a REAL side effect of it. phleshdef Aug 2014 #2

Message auto-removed Name removed Aug 2014 #10

Perhaps you didn't mean your OP to come off the way that it did. phleshdef Aug 2014 #26

Message auto-removed Name removed Aug 2014 #47

This message was self-deleted by its author ChisolmTrailDem Aug 2014 #84

what crap. you've spent more time reading and addressing these posts than it would've orleans Aug 2014 #87

Righteous. cyberswede Aug 2014 #94

You should self delete your OP as it is cruel Tumbulu Aug 2014 #97

"Really, Mr. Williams?" is blaming him for his illness. Gormy Cuss Aug 2014 #121

Really 8_Point? Make7 Aug 2014 #32

Wow. elehhhhna Aug 2014 #3

He had a disease called depression.nt sufrommich Aug 2014 #5

it was worse....Bipolar disorder..... VanillaRhapsody Aug 2014 #83

you might want to self delete, this is in poor taste imho nt steve2470 Aug 2014 #6

This message was self-deleted by its author Courtesy Flush Aug 2014 #7

Please consider deleting this OP. You do not understand what you are saying. You really do not. Tuesday Afternoon Aug 2014 #8

+1 BeyondGeography Aug 2014 #34

Post removed Post removed Aug 2014 #11

So why bring this up? Sheldon Cooper Aug 2014 #21

Results for #11, 1-6 hide Lancero Aug 2014 #37

It's not even true. People who engage in that practice do not intend to die, only to merrily Aug 2014 #89

really? You are going there? rbrnmw Aug 2014 #25

Disrespectful, and dumb. MADem Aug 2014 #51

Fail. WilliamPitt Aug 2014 #12

Depression is a disease that kills REP Aug 2014 #13

Yeah, I alerted on this NightWatcher Aug 2014 #14

Please let me be on that jury. 99Forever Aug 2014 #18

Cannot happen. MADem Aug 2014 #53

good rbrnmw Aug 2014 #19

I was tempted to alert on this as well... Lancero Aug 2014 #20

So did I malaise Aug 2014 #27

He can't hear you. Warren DeMontague Aug 2014 #16

+1 nt MADem Aug 2014 #56

disgusting rbrnmw Aug 2014 #17

Really 8_Point? Sheldon Cooper Aug 2014 #22

Go away please n/t malaise Aug 2014 #23

My hope is that a jury hides this. Texasgal Aug 2014 #28

Let stand 2-5 pkdu Aug 2014 #39

Logging off. Texasgal Aug 2014 #42

Message auto-removed Name removed Aug 2014 #48

You've been asked multiple times to self delete. zappaman Aug 2014 #57

Message auto-removed Name removed Aug 2014 #62

The tone deafness continues. AngryOldDem Aug 2014 #75

not ok... handmade34 Aug 2014 #90

It's. Not. About. You. Scootaloo Aug 2014 #102

jeebus this place really stinks sometimes... VanillaRhapsody Aug 2014 #88

This is a disgusting post. johnp3907 Aug 2014 #29

You should delete this. tammywammy Aug 2014 #30

Pathetic post. BillZBubb Aug 2014 #31

C'mon... Gidney N Cloyd Aug 2014 #33

Wow. I get the funny feeling you aren't going to last long here. Just wow. kestrel91316 Aug 2014 #36

Wow. Incredibly callous. 7wo7rees Aug 2014 #38

UNREC. zappaman Aug 2014 #40

Depression is all too often a fatal disease. herding cats Aug 2014 #41

unrec blogslut Aug 2014 #43

I would urge you to delete this post. Failing that, I would urge you to ... 11 Bravo Aug 2014 #44

This is almost as rude as the op, I urge you to edit. newcriminal Aug 2014 #99

Message auto-removed Name removed Aug 2014 #109

This is the hard way to learn the ropes... HereSince1628 Aug 2014 #45

Really? tenderfoot Aug 2014 #46

It seems like we have one of these everyday now. bravenak Aug 2014 #49

It's nuts tenderfoot Aug 2014 #50

Anything goes now. bravenak Aug 2014 #60

The people that expose that kind of thing get the hides/locked posts tenderfoot Aug 2014 #65

Oh hell yeah!! bravenak Aug 2014 #80

Even in a thread sensitive to the dysfunction of mental illness HereSince1628 Aug 2014 #73

So insane would be wrong as well? tenderfoot Aug 2014 #98

Actually, yes. You might want to google "stigmatizing terms for mental illness" HereSince1628 Aug 2014 #112

I think you're trolling tenderfoot Aug 2014 #115

Well, you can think whatever you wish. HereSince1628 Aug 2014 #120

. MohRokTah Aug 2014 #54

Unrec!!! hrmjustin Aug 2014 #55

Self delete this POS. Save some face. n-t Logical Aug 2014 #58

Piss poor post n/t OhioChick Aug 2014 #59

Don't. This is cruel and you should delete it. People are hurting. nolabear Aug 2014 #61

Indeed, the respectful thing would be to defer to the community, not double down pinboy3niner Aug 2014 #70

Please delete this. AngryOldDem Aug 2014 #63

horrible thread JI7 Aug 2014 #64

THIS THEAD IS DISGUSTING. 29 notes 8-point ???? trueblue2007 Aug 2014 #66

My condolences to you and your family. AngryOldDem Aug 2014 #68

..... steve2470 Aug 2014 #71

i alerted too. this is too much. DU used to be a good place. trueblue2007 Aug 2014 #76

Message auto-removed Name removed Aug 2014 #77

Did you just..... bravenak Aug 2014 #86

We have alerted. A jury allowed this to stand. 7wo7rees Aug 2014 #69

i alerted also. n/t orleans Aug 2014 #74

+1 AngryOldDem Aug 2014 #78

... Phlem Aug 2014 #72

Many people that work in comedy commit suicide. Far onecent Aug 2014 #79

Well, that is one hell of an entrance to DU. obxhead Aug 2014 #81

Ill-timed thread, don't you think? Iron Man Aug 2014 #82

Really Mr. 8_Point? Social suicide? GliderGuider Aug 2014 #85

Why do I have the feeling you're reading all of these replies and octoberlib Aug 2014 #91

... cyberswede Aug 2014 #95

Shitty thing to say Marrah_G Aug 2014 #92

Really Sharon Tate? Opening your door for a knock? tenderfoot Aug 2014 #96

Damn you're good. bravenak Aug 2014 #105

Self delete. Barring that -- Mods, PLEASE take this down. DeadLetterOffice Aug 2014 #101

When you have severe, clinical depression Gormy Cuss Aug 2014 #103

Empathy is what sets us liberals apart... av8rdave Aug 2014 #104

Not familiar with depression? Half-Century Man Aug 2014 #106

Disgusting, cruel, rude and stupid theHandpuppet Aug 2014 #107

I got one. 'Really Dick Cheney? ANOTHER heart? What a waste!' bravenak Aug 2014 #108

Please self-delete. TDale313 Aug 2014 #110

Shame on the Mods for letting this thread live... trumad Aug 2014 #111

It's not the Mods, it's the Mob HereSince1628 Aug 2014 #117

Well, if were gonna let slavery apologist posts stay, then Hissyspit Aug 2014 #118

It wasn't the mods. It was the failed jury system. tenderfoot Aug 2014 #119

Thoughtless Bobbie Jo Aug 2014 #113

mirt, idjet on aisle zero A-Schwarzenegger Aug 2014 #114

This is incredibly tasteless. Manifestor_of_Light Aug 2014 #123

That could only be said by someone -- Hell Hath No Fury Aug 2014 #124