There is something i dont understand re the so called "rape porn".

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79. There are a couple of intriguing theories as to why some women have rape fantasies.

1) People eroticize what they fear, thus the prominence among men of cuckold fantasies. Women fear rape, so they eroticize it as a way to cope.

2) Patriarchy tries to control female sexuality by saying what is good/bad or by defining where/when. Women therefore have a difficult time engaging in certain sexual practices without guilt. By being "taken" or "forced" the heroine loses any responsibility and she can basque in her orgasms guilt free.

Those are very condensed versions of two theories and there are others. I write erotica/porn and have been trying to actually get a grip on the whole cuckold fantasy and why so many men evidently have that one. The first theory above was offered as an explanation. Men fear a more "alpha" male will or could more capably satisfy the woman so they have this fantasy where it happens.

Human sexuality is fascinating and I find it almost amusing that people get so uncomfortable with discussions of WHY. Makes me wonder what they fear.