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In reply to the discussion: Rape play is NOT rape. [View all]BainsBane
(53,034 posts)Last edited Tue Aug 12, 2014, 12:06 PM - Edit history (1)
to pretend that 90 percent of rape victims aren't female is ridiculous.
Again, rape porn is not BDSM. Rape porn is what men who fantasize about raping women get off on watching. Much of it is billed as being real rape. Some may be real rape. Go online and watch some of it yourself before deciding women here are just complaining about "play."
It would seem to me that those who think anything having to do with sex is nobody's business but those involved wouldn't feel compelled to continue to post threads to put such conduct up for discussion. Private behavior is just that, private. When you start discussion on it, people will have opinions. To them claim that rape survivors and others who care about rape culture are just "silly" for maintaining an awareness of society at large is absurd. If this were about private behavior between adults, as your answer above suggests, it doesn't need to be in a thread. If it's about broader cultural issues, that your point is patently false.