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lovemydog

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108. I've noticed it too.

Wed Aug 13, 2014, 06:57 AM

Aug 2014

Also some get really angry and lash out. I don't know why to that either. Do you have any theories on it?

I guess it's a subject that can rile people up. I think it's a fun subject though, so I try not to get too riled up. If I do, I try not to post anger because I don't want to hurt someone's feelings.

I find human sexuality fascinating. And lots of people are certainly interested in it as a subject too. The human sexuality course at my university was consistently one of the most popular & informative.

It's all a part of life's rich pageant.

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There is something i dont understand re the so called "rape porn". [View all] darkangel218 Aug 2014 OP

You are missing the condemnation from upaloopa Aug 2014 #1

I see. So women who dislike rape porn BainsBane Aug 2014 #42

No, here's an explanation of reaction formation: lovemydog Aug 2014 #111

ROFL at amateur psychoanalysis n/t Scout Aug 2014 #82

This message was self-deleted by its author 1000words Aug 2014 #2

Thats what i thought. darkangel218 Aug 2014 #3

because some folks get it and others don't FreakinDJ Aug 2014 #4

Because some people want to ban it. n/t Kurska Aug 2014 #6

Well, they may want it. darkangel218 Aug 2014 #69

This message was self-deleted by its author 1000words Aug 2014 #64

what, exactly, to you is "female rape fantasy"? CTyankee Aug 2014 #8

I see traces of it in old movies. But, I don't think they were written by women. merrily Aug 2014 #56

No. We're entirely normal. Why does this upset some men so much? CTyankee Aug 2014 #57

I have yet to meet anyone who has such fantasies Tumbulu Aug 2014 #77

Oh god no not again.NOT AGAIN. GET TO THE RAPE PORN THREAD BUNKER Kurska Aug 2014 #5

Lmao! darkangel218 Aug 2014 #7

This post wins the thread. LOL! n/t Butterbean Aug 2014 #14

LET ME IN! In_The_Wind Aug 2014 #29

yes - Rape Porn threads distract from the real issue - Legalizing Prostitution. nt el_bryanto Aug 2014 #81

Or an even more important issue Kurska Aug 2014 #110

I do - but so that all our friends at home can play along el_bryanto Aug 2014 #114

Nah Kurska Aug 2014 #115

You just make veiled accusations without backing them up el_bryanto Aug 2014 #116

We both know what we're talking about. Kurska Aug 2014 #117

What is its relevance to this discussion? el_bryanto Aug 2014 #118

Um Kurska Aug 2014 #119

Fair enough. el_bryanto Aug 2014 #120

Don't mistake a little good natured ribbing for malice. Kurska Aug 2014 #121

duzy lovemydog Aug 2014 #109

I thought the threads concerned the use of rape porn leftstreet Aug 2014 #9

You probably missed the last great DU rape porn civil war. Kurska Aug 2014 #10

I have. threads and subthreads. darkangel218 Aug 2014 #11

I remember in AP English when my teacher started talking about Butterbean Aug 2014 #12

There are a couple of intriguing theories as to why some women have rape fantasies. kickitup Aug 2014 #79

I've noticed it too. lovemydog Aug 2014 #108

hmmm seaglass Aug 2014 #13

If someone seeks it out intentionally, that is one thing. MadrasT Aug 2014 #15

My OP was about what "rape porn" exactly is darkangel218 Aug 2014 #17

anybody with a brain can see Kali Aug 2014 #35

And anybody with a brain can see yours. nt darkangel218 Aug 2014 #37

I think maybe your confusion is because there's lovemydog Aug 2014 #112

don't you hate when people "ask a question," but it's really just a statement with a question mark? Scootaloo Aug 2014 #16

How so? darkangel218 Aug 2014 #18

My statement was about BDSM. darkangel218 Aug 2014 #19

Then no, it's not the same thing Scootaloo Aug 2014 #20

Okay i jusy googled. dont find anything except links to porn sites darkangel218 Aug 2014 #22

Rape porn is porn that depicts a scenario of rape. i.e., lack of consent or forced "consent" Scootaloo Aug 2014 #26

Lack of consent is depicted in Tons of bdsm films darkangel218 Aug 2014 #27

Are you asking or telling, now? Scootaloo Aug 2014 #30

Im talking about BDSM darkangel218 Aug 2014 #31

And I answered you. No, it's not. Scootaloo Aug 2014 #34

I think youre referring to yourself darkangel218 Aug 2014 #41

Jury results, 2-5 leave Lancero Aug 2014 #46

So you know a bunch of people who are into abuse. Good for you. Doesn't make that a healthy outlet. KittyWampus Aug 2014 #21

BDSM is NOT abuse. Not even close darkangel218 Aug 2014 #23

"doesnt mean that behavior comes from a well adjusted psyche" darkangel218 Aug 2014 #107

Do you have google? Texasgal Aug 2014 #24

See above. nt darkangel218 Aug 2014 #25

You must not be looking very well Texasgal Aug 2014 #28

So post something then darkangel218 Aug 2014 #33

I just gave you instructions.. Texasgal Aug 2014 #38

They have a website specifically for people who ask question they could simply google for LostOne4Ever Aug 2014 #76

Google gives this = Tuesday Afternoon Aug 2014 #32

Okay, so rape porn IS same with some bdsm films darkangel218 Aug 2014 #36

Yeah. Texasgal Aug 2014 #40

The definition of porn implies adult films darkangel218 Aug 2014 #43

So? n/t Texasgal Aug 2014 #47

Lol! you dont care if theyre wrong? darkangel218 Aug 2014 #49

Wrong about what? Texasgal Aug 2014 #52

lolol ok. darkangel218 Aug 2014 #53

Try to change it on wiki. lovemydog Aug 2014 #113

It's rape fantasy BainsBane Aug 2014 #39

If you go on BDSM sites, non consensual pretend PLAY is a big part of the BDSM lifestyle darkangel218 Aug 2014 #45

google it mercuryblues Aug 2014 #44

I think your post is over the top. In a serious way darkangel218 Aug 2014 #48

No mercuryblues Aug 2014 #54

You seem to want to redefine my question. darkangel218 Aug 2014 #55

You redefined mercuryblues Aug 2014 #62

I did distinguish between the two. darkangel218 Aug 2014 #63

No, you did mercuryblues Aug 2014 #66

This is what i said in my OP darkangel218 Aug 2014 #70

I can mercuryblues Aug 2014 #80

Thank you. JaydenD Aug 2014 #71

What needed to be said has been said. darkangel218 Aug 2014 #72

You asked what rape porn was and you got answers. JaydenD Aug 2014 #73

stop aalready we get it elehhhhna Aug 2014 #58

Stop? darkangel218 Aug 2014 #59

I can't?!! Fine, then I think your post is over the top. In a serious way elehhhhna Aug 2014 #60

Youre free to say whatever you want, and others can tell you how they feel about it darkangel218 Aug 2014 #61

! Kali Aug 2014 #67

Lmao!! Look who's talking about "behaviour"! darkangel218 Aug 2014 #68

It is the purpose Texasgal Aug 2014 #51

Let me express my shock with this OP tammywammy Aug 2014 #50

Firstly, there's porn that consists of simulated "rape." So long as what is happening isn't a real nomorenomore08 Aug 2014 #65

It's exactly what the name says. LeftyMom Aug 2014 #74

LOL, +1. You always completely nail it. R B Garr Aug 2014 #75

So discussion is "being obtuse"? darkangel218 Aug 2014 #84

And the thing is bluestateguy Aug 2014 #78

Did i say anywhere in my OP or my posts that we werent? darkangel218 Aug 2014 #85

I didn't say that you said that bluestateguy Aug 2014 #105

I think you're missing enough imagination to understand MineralMan Aug 2014 #83

No, rape porn/rape play is just a role play and nothing more. Im not lacking imagination. darkangel218 Aug 2014 #87

You are incorrect. MineralMan Aug 2014 #88

Rape play is extremly common in BDSM movies and lifestyle. darkangel218 Aug 2014 #91

Not my kink, so I wouldn't know. MineralMan Aug 2014 #93

It has everything to do with BDSM. darkangel218 Aug 2014 #94

Let me see if I can clarify: MineralMan Aug 2014 #86

Okay, lets see. darkangel218 Aug 2014 #89

Respectfully, the content in your post is incorrect. MineralMan Aug 2014 #90

Ive watched plenty. darkangel218 Aug 2014 #92

gosh, even most of the usual porn proponents are avoiding this thread Kali Aug 2014 #100

This is one of the most intellectually dishonest threads I've seen on here. historylovr Aug 2014 #95

No straw at all. I wasnt sure if the "outraged" referred to the same thing as in BDSM play. darkangel218 Aug 2014 #96

No, they didn't. historylovr Aug 2014 #97

Thats not what theyre saying, in this thread and the other one. darkangel218 Aug 2014 #98

That's exactly what they're saying. historylovr Aug 2014 #99

oh this is nothing Kali Aug 2014 #101

I'll take your word for it, Kali. historylovr Aug 2014 #102

This message was self-deleted by its author darkangel218 Aug 2014 #106

Whoa. You achieved a firm grasp overnight. nt. NCTraveler Aug 2014 #103

Not so at all. darkangel218 Aug 2014 #104