There is something i dont understand re the so called "rape porn".

[lovemydog]

112. I think maybe your confusion is because there's

sort of two different things at play here.

First is porn that suggests rape fantasies.

Second is what was happening at those spamming sites.

Another might be porn that actually depicts or suggests rape, i.e., something much more heavy.

So if you're looking for working definitions (something I appreciate as well), I hope that helps a bit. I guess you'd want to ask someone with whom you're conversing though, that to which they are referring. In this subject (like many subjects!) it can all get blurry at times. I think sometimes that if different people are thinking of different definitions, then it can really lead to frustration and misunderstandings and hurt feelings on message boards.

Hope that helps a bit.