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sheshe2

(96,841 posts)
Mon Sep 8, 2014, 08:40 PM Sep 2014

Domestic violence still a silent killer [View all]



Atlanta

What strikes one in four American women and claims a life in the United States every six hours? The scourge of domestic violence is so stigmatizing that most victims never talk about it or seek help.

Paula Denize Lewis, an executive assistant here in Atlanta, was among those who kept quiet. She tried to cover up the black eyes and bruises when she went to work, and when she showed up with her arm in a sling she claimed that she had fallen down the stairs.

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Domestic violence deserves far more attention, resources and police understanding of the complexities involved. This is not a fringe concern. It is vast, outrageous and should be a national priority.

Women worldwide ages 15 to 44 are more likely to die or be maimed as a result of male violence than as a consequence of war, cancer, malaria and traffic accidents combined. Far more Americans, mostly women, have been killed in the past dozen years at the hands of their partners than in the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan.

First, we must end the silence.

http://www.omaha.com/opinion/editorials/nicholas-kristof-domestic-violence-still-a-silent-killer/article_06870c6c-9136-5645-8ba2-6b185f4d1af7.html

















Trust me on this, someone you know or love is a victim. It is time to break the silence, I know this because I was silent too.



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Yes indeed. NYC_SKP Sep 2014 #1
this fact from the OP is treated like a joke by TOO many in the DU community. BlancheSplanchnik Sep 2014 #2
I don't understand it either Blanche. sheshe2 Sep 2014 #3
Thank you for this thread sheshe2. lovemydog Sep 2014 #4
Oh...you said. sheshe2 Sep 2014 #6
I almost died from emotional and verbal abuse. Manifestor_of_Light Sep 2014 #5
I'm so sorry Manifestor_of_Light. lovemydog Sep 2014 #7
Thank you for your kind words. Manifestor_of_Light Sep 2014 #16
My heart goes out to you Manifestor_of_Light. sheshe2 Sep 2014 #10
Thank you for your kind words. Manifestor_of_Light Sep 2014 #17
"I had no immune system left, that's why, from the stress of being nagged." nomorenomore08 Sep 2014 #12
I don't know either. Manifestor_of_Light Sep 2014 #18
Emotional abuse effects Health drophammer77 Oct 2015 #20
I'm so sorry for you, Drophammer. Manifestor_of_Light Oct 2015 #21
K&R ismnotwasm Sep 2014 #8
Thank you ism. sheshe2 Sep 2014 #9
"Don't judge people for the choices they make when you don't know the options they had nomorenomore08 Sep 2014 #11
nomorenomore08 sheshe2 Sep 2014 #13
Unfortunately (to say the least) there does seem to be at least a relative handful of posters here - nomorenomore08 Sep 2014 #14
I think they have to resort to mail-order brides. Manifestor_of_Light Sep 2014 #19
"An abuser, 9 times out of 10 - or more - can never be mollified" Sad, but true, unfortunately. nt AverageJoe90 Sep 2014 #15
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