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tencats

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20. Was recently remembering an event I witnessed back in 1983
Tue Sep 9, 2014, 10:20 AM
Sep 2014

The memory of it still bothers me today after the passing of 31 years. I have it recorded in my old field notes that are put away somewhere and its remains a vivid memory yet today. In the early 80's I was making twice a year long 1200 mile trips driving down to the state of Florida during the months of September and October. I always traveled alone. My primary interest was collecting and photographing several of the Phoebis sp.that occur only in the southern most region of U.S. That being my purpose of my travel through the state of Florida I would seek out only the most uninhabited areas. It was a Sunday at approx 11 AM that I had passed through Tallahassee and was making my first collecting/survey stop about 15 miles southeast off of State Highway 20. Its large area of scrub habitat land owned by a paper co. The way in was by sand/dirt service roads set up on a N to S, E to W grid. I was in about one half mile driving very slowly when I herd a women's voice shrieking "Help Me, Help". I stopped but didn't see anyone at first but got my focus on the general direction of the calling for help. Then there was only quiet for about a minute but then I saw a women age possibly mid thirties crawling through the high weeds and brush coming towards me. She was wearing a off white patterned dress, something like one would wear to church on Sunday but very out of place here in the dry scrub land. I just stood there watching her coming towards me, half crawling half stumbling upright. She comes around to to the side of my car and pleads to be let in. I'm looking at her and see that she is all scratched up on her pale white bare legs and arms, not bloody but I could see and sense her panic in fleeing what? All she is saying is repeating "help me, please help me" and she's exhausted to the point of gasping for air. It was another long perhaps a good minute more I was confronted with what/who she was running from. While I was knelling down beside her I hadn't seen the man approach us from the opposite direction. He got by attention by bellowing at me "get the f__k away from her". I stood up to face him showing him my open hands, he stayed standing off in the high weeds at about 30 ft away. He was a large man I would guess 240 lbs, shirtless with soiled denim jeans. I stood facing him and tried asking "whats going here?". He just repeated "you get the f__k away from here". Every time he bellowed she would whimper something unintelligible. I was expecting her to enter my cay from the opposite side but she didn't. I don't know but maybe the door was locked on that side. It seemed like a long time I stood facing that guy, couldn't reason/talk with him, tried to calm him down but then he just exploded with "I'll shoot you down where you stand if if don't get the hell out of her now" and "you leave her be". He started forwards and was reaching for something he had behind his back, but I never clearly saw what it was that he had. I just got back inside my car and drove away. In the rear view mirror I saw the women remain knelling down in the rut of the road. I drove as fast as I could returning the where I had exited the state highway. There was a sort of rest stop and picnic area there that I thought I had remembered a pay phone box being there. But no phone. I was trying to think quickly as possible about what to do to summon help but I was just too far away from any connected phone and it being Sunday there was very little chance of stopping a passing car on the highway. The last option was then to open up my kit packed away in the my car's trunk. I had started packing a S&W model 39 several years before because of a very bad experience. However I could never really figure how I could or would use it. This seemed like the time to use it but I sure didn't like what I was thinking. I unpacked it, chambered a round and took off back to where I abandoned that poor women knelling in the rut of the road. Well, by the time I got back to the exact spot there was nothing but foot prints in the sand. I imagined I could see the imprints of a struggle where I had left her but beyond that there was nothing. No blood but what was it that had played out? I spent something like an hour more driving around but saw no person, nothing. Further along the highway I stopped at a phone and attempted to make a report to the police and that didn't go well either because I couldn't point out the location accurately. I continued then south to Naples. Thirty one years gone by and it bothers me yet, what was that?

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If it was just one unarmed guy jambo101 Sep 2014 #1
Yes, one way or another. Uncle Joe Sep 2014 #2
I know what the point is, but... TreasonousBastard Sep 2014 #3
Were you even watching the same video I was? moriah Sep 2014 #6
delete-- dupe TreasonousBastard Sep 2014 #3
delete-- dupe TreasonousBastard Sep 2014 #3
I would help anyone I perceived to be in trouble Skittles Sep 2014 #7
Yes JustAnotherGen Sep 2014 #8
I've intervened in the past The Traveler Sep 2014 #9
I would and I have gwheezie Sep 2014 #10
Hero can get overused, but not in that case for sure kcr Sep 2014 #18
He was a retired cop gwheezie Sep 2014 #35
Absolutely! Earth_First Sep 2014 #11
No, I would try to stop the assault jberryhill Sep 2014 #12
Call the police, but don't intervene unless absolutely necessary Lurks Often Sep 2014 #13
That's the smart move. /nt Marr Sep 2014 #23
Absolutely pipi_k Sep 2014 #27
Of course. Iggo Sep 2014 #14
I have. LisaLynne Sep 2014 #15
I have done it and would again ripcord Sep 2014 #38
I got my ass whooped for it before... cherokeeprogressive Sep 2014 #16
Stop and ask if either needed help The Straight Story Sep 2014 #17
I'd not mess with the perp, but I'd go call 911 or police. Triana Sep 2014 #19
Was recently remembering an event I witnessed back in 1983 tencats Sep 2014 #20
I'm not Bud White. MohRokTah Sep 2014 #21
Honestly, I wouldn't do it again, no. Marr Sep 2014 #22
In the US yes I would davidpdx Sep 2014 #24
Yes sarisataka Sep 2014 #25
I tried to once. Domestic violence in public. Zorra Sep 2014 #26
yes Marrah_G Sep 2014 #28
In a heartbeat benld74 Sep 2014 #29
I would do everything I could to help... one_voice Sep 2014 #30
Would? Did. Xithras Sep 2014 #31
Yup, done it. intaglio Sep 2014 #32
If I clearly see domestic violence in action, you bet I'll intervene derby378 Sep 2014 #33
It depends on wether I could do something effective. upaloopa Sep 2014 #34
Many years ago, I heard a woman scream for help at the mall parking lot. DrewFlorida Sep 2014 #36
Only if I hear the words "Help" Xyzse Sep 2014 #37
A couple years ago, after listening to my neighbors arguements every weekend for several months. DrewFlorida Sep 2014 #39
I have done it several times before & wouldn't hesitate to do it again, even though I had one woman Ghost in the Machine Sep 2014 #40
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