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In reply to the discussion: Okay, no spanking. I get that but what's this dad suppose to do? [View all]Avalux
(35,015 posts)The worst thing you can do is demand they don't date someone because that backfires and they'll date someone they don't even like just to spite you! All you can do is trust that what you've taught them will guide them and they'll hear your voice in their head at just the right time. It's difficult to let go of control as they get older and some parents freak out over that; I know I struggled with it and still do sometimes. BUT - I respect my kids and know that they must have their own experiences, not just listen to me if I don't agree.
The other day, I was lamenting over my oldest daughter's move out of state a few months ago - I REALLY miss her. A friend was quick to point out that I didn't raise any of my daughters to live with me forever, but to be independent, smart, kind, and determined women. All I could do is laugh.