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In reply to the discussion: Okay, no spanking. I get that but what's this dad suppose to do? [View all]Feral Child
(2,086 posts)With absolutely no intention to insult or anger you, it sounds as if the child has some issues that are beyond the typical parent. I'd suggest you consider speaking to a professional about this, perhaps starting with your pediatrician.
The brain is a complex organ and it's quite possible that any number of chemical or hormonal imbalances might be present. If this sort of reaction, even to a lesser degree, is common with the child it may well be a health problem.
Temper-tantrums aren't that uncommon with children that age, but this seems, to me, to be extreme.
I wish I had a practical solution to your problem that you could implement yourself, but if they or she is defying orders to go to her room for a time-out I don't think that you can control the situation on your own. Get help before these situations escalate.