I grant Ms. Watson's point. Still.

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68. As a lesbian, who happens to tends towards the masculine

Tell your hubby for me that I'm nowhere near predatory (I often have no clue if a woman is interested in me unless she plants herself in my face and says so) and that I often can see a hetero woman and see her as appealing but there's one problem...she's hetero.

I think your hubby may be conflating lesbians with men (this is not meant as an insult to all men--just the one's that act as your hubby think lesbians do). Are there predatory lesbians? Yep, there are but there are also predatory hetero women and predatory men but the vast majorities of the lesbians I've known have no interest in working so hard to date someone (i.e. turning a hetero woman) and if a hetero woman happens to sleep with a lesbian? She wasn't all that hetero to begin with.