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I feel you, my dad died the middle of September. giftedgirl77 Oct 2014 #1
Just being there is doing something! Peace to you and your family. logosoco Oct 2014 #2
I am so sorry, my dear RandySF... CaliforniaPeggy Oct 2014 #3
I totally understand. My mother died a year ago August, we were with her for the final 3 months. peacebird Oct 2014 #4
Mercy shenmue Oct 2014 #5
Totally understand, it is part of human nature, and happens to all I believe,,, benld74 Oct 2014 #6
I'm sorry, Randy. brer cat Oct 2014 #7
I was in the same position 2 and a half years ago; I learned humility. snappyturtle Oct 2014 #8
I can completely understand since I've been there, too. Rhiannon12866 Oct 2014 #9
Yes, it does. If you're grieving and trying to be there for her and others all at once, you're being ancianita Oct 2014 #10
Sorry to hear this...yes, it's weird knowing you have no control at all.. joeybee12 Oct 2014 #11
Randy...... TinkerTot55 Oct 2014 #12
Dear Randy.. re-read response #2 above. annabanana Oct 2014 #13
So sorry, RandySF! pnwmom Oct 2014 #14
((Randy)) irisblue Oct 2014 #15
There are some things you can control. ZombieHorde Oct 2014 #16
i'm so sorry. I wish you & your family peace. Triana Oct 2014 #17
I am sorry. Be patient with yourself. Letting someone go knowing you won't see them again is liberal_at_heart Oct 2014 #18
sometimes i think that all smile are paid for in tears. mopinko Oct 2014 #19
Understand. Hugs to you. 840high Oct 2014 #20
I rec'd shortly after you posted this, did not know what to say. I still don't, but have been uppityperson Oct 2014 #21
Randy Iwillnevergiveup Oct 2014 #22
Sweet son, you have many kindred souls here..... nc4bo Oct 2014 #23
The thing you can do is give love, kindness, patience, hold her hand, if she wants, Voice for Peace Oct 2014 #24
My sincere empathy goes out to you Mira Oct 2014 #25
:grouphug: WillyT Oct 2014 #26
Death will come for us all, eventually Mister Nightowl Oct 2014 #27
my brother is slipping away as we speak. spanone Oct 2014 #28
She knows you are there for her, and remember, you are her legacy TheNutcracker Oct 2014 #29
... Mnemosyne Oct 2014 #30
Kicking because one of us is in pain.... nc4bo Oct 2014 #31
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