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In reply to the discussion: 100 catcalls in a day. Experience how much fun this is NOT. [View all]dilby
(2,273 posts)And what I find attractive most men do not, but at the end of the day I prefer a woman who is intelligent and this is not something you can determine by someone walking down the street. If I look back on the last week with random conversations I have had with strangers that I initiated one was with a woman about her bike as we were waiting at a stop light, I liked her fenders and was asking about them. Another was with a man at the coffee shop as we waited for our coffee, he had some really nice American Traditional tattoos that were very well done so I was asking about who did them. Another was a lady at the library, we were looking at books from the same Author and I asked if she had read any of his work, which she had and told me the book I was holding was really good and to give it a shot.
As far as women at my work, I talk to them all the time but I think it's very unprofessional to go into subject matters that could be misunderstood so I try to stay away from conversations about physical appearance and dating lives, this holds true when talking to male coworkers as well, I hate it when a male coworker makes a comment about a woman at our work, I find it very unprofessional and make it known I am not comfortable with where the conversation is going.