Another risk of spanking: establishing a 50 Shades relationship between parent and child.

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34. I am sharing as a real life witness to this sexual abuse hidden in spanking children

I surf the net relentlessly, can't stop obsession with the spanking topic as I suffer the fetish from my childhood. It is real, it distracts and warps a person's sexuality for LIFE! Please read my story and the web owners story how childhood spanking was sexualized & was realized later by me and other victims that parents act out their own sexual gratification in spanking their children secretly without challenge because they themselves developed a sexual paraphilia from their own childhood spankings. I recall the slow ritualized clothing removal by my mother, the unbuttoning of my trousers, the unzipping of my fly, the pulling down of my pants, and then underwear and the total genital exposure to her! I was to young to show visible signs of sexual arousal, but a few years later I realized the pleasurable moments I felt before the order to go over her knees was sexual arousal! And later in therapy with recalling I understood her hidden pleasure in spanking and its ritual! Please follow the links, they tell the story of this cultural secret, the sexual abuse of children in spanking! http://www.child-abuse-effects.com/sexual-abuse-under-the-guise-of-spanking-for-discipline.html and http://www.child-abuse-effects.com/can-childhood-spankings-be-administered-because-of-or-lead-to-a-spanking-fetish.html No child deserves this damage from spanking, a life time distraction that is obsessive!