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Anansi1171

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13. Been there with the bruises and bite marks!

Reply to villager (Reply #3)

Tue Nov 25, 2014, 04:55 PM

Nov 2014

Recently, nearly in front of my kids, my wife stabbed me repeatedly with a car key.

I do not believe help exists, to be frank.

She wont leave, and largely due to her manic over spending we are near poverty though im back to work. Its 300 bucks to file for separation and that cant force her out.

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Men still hidden as victims of violence in the home [View all] grahamhgreen Nov 2014 OP

Fear of looking weak or "unmanly" prevents many men from seeking help. dawg Nov 2014 #1

Yeah. Once when my ex-wife left bruises and bite marks on my body, I thought about reporting villager Nov 2014 #3

Sorry you had to go through all of that. dawg Nov 2014 #7

Been there with the bruises and bite marks! Anansi1171 Nov 2014 #13

Man, I just replied to your post downthread! villager Nov 2014 #16

Thank you, Brother. Im stuggling to type this. Anansi1171 Nov 2014 #17

Take care, and travel well. villager Nov 2014 #19

I have a good friend, single not surprisingly, Seeking Serenity Nov 2014 #4

You've hit on something that I really think about a lot. dawg Nov 2014 #6

I'm gonna be honest here Seeking Serenity Nov 2014 #8

That's how these attitudes get changed - one person, or couple, at a time. dawg Nov 2014 #12

A lot of women seem to struggle with this davidn3600 Nov 2014 #10

A lot about the gender role breakdown is still a one-way street... villager Nov 2014 #11

It does take a little effort to get that point across davidn3600 Nov 2014 #20

DV is wrong, no matter the genders of those involved. uppityperson Nov 2014 #2

I have an uncle and a male cousin who are both married to abusive spouses. Ykcutnek Nov 2014 #5

Thanks for posting. I am a male victim of a wife with... Anansi1171 Nov 2014 #9

My Ex didn't get any treatment for her own "bipolarity" until after our marriage collapsed. villager Nov 2014 #14

Thanks Villager!-nt Anansi1171 Nov 2014 #15

Yep: "Patriarchy doesn�t just punish women." cyberswede Nov 2014 #18

Sadly, all too common. Behind the Aegis Nov 2014 #21

For some reason, BtA, I'd always hoped GL relationships could at least get past the "usual" villager Dec 2014 #22