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In reply to the discussion: If you had to do it all over again,what would you change? [View all]villager
(26,001 posts)29. That's the big caveat -- "If I could be guaranteed the exact same children."
My first (and so far only!) wife wound up breaking my heart quite effectively -- would I marry her again, if I knew, ultimately, where we were headed?
And yet, how could I not, given how I love my sons?
On the other hand, in the new year, with so many previous "new years" behind me now, it's time to really move on from that marriage.
Plus, with an emptying nest, what's holding me back? Time to head off "future regrets," then!
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