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annm4peace

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18. My friend does loans for people being relocated by their company

Wed Jan 14, 2015, 12:32 AM

Jan 2015

Either for Fortune 500 companies or the Federal Government

She said they do several thousand a year and over 3 billion dollars a year.

and in 10 years she said she has done only about 20 loans where the borrower being relocated is a woman.

She says it has been only about 10% of loans.

She has done only 3 loans for black women.

No women with Latino names

Just sayin

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