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HillWilliam

(3,310 posts)
35. We're 45-50 minutes away from Duke
Thu May 3, 2012, 09:31 AM
May 2012

Which was handy for me. My partner spent a good part of the year last year (and a couple of spells this year) in hospital. Whilst I was unemployed it was convenient to run favorite foods, clean jammies, etc over. I work in High Point now, so that makes a bigdang circle from Caswell County to HP to Durham and back home.

We've had experience with quite a few healthcare systems. Nothing in Florida and very little in NC touches the quality of care he's getting at Duke. The problem with changing states is that he has to start all over again with Medicaid and Ryan White. Sometimes that could be months- to a year-long wait. He can't do without care that long. (I almost lost him when we moved back to NC.) All that being said, you see why we have to be careful about EXACTLY what system is available wherever we'd go and what the level of care is.

We love Vermont, but his constitution won't last through one of those winters. Oregon and Washington state are "on the list" for climate, certainly, but we haven't yet investigated what kind of systems there are and how good they are.

Then there's the matter of my finding an appropriate job. Then there is the matter of relocating with our six dogs. Just can't go get any apartment. 'T'ain't easy when there is so much to consider.

But I would gladly walk the steps not to be an official second-class to non-citizen. Those teapot SOBs gladly take our higher tax-rate money, but they don't want to give personhood in return.

Burns my ass that corporations are "people" but gay people are not.

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We had a similar "bozo moment" up here TrogL May 2012 #1
I self-deleted my thread on this HillWilliam May 2012 #2
da nada TalkingDog May 2012 #26
None of us are really surprised. What they should dmr May 2012 #3
What an idiot! David in Canada May 2012 #4
Marriage = 1 Man/1 Woman ... 1StrongBlackMan May 2012 #5
Assuming Caucasian Man and Woman.....Caucasian babies? yellowcanine May 2012 #13
Unmarried caucasian man + Unmarried Caucasian woman = Caucasian babies, too ... No? n/t 1StrongBlackMan May 2012 #23
Kicking again HillWilliam May 2012 #6
So, is her logic that if we force gay white people to marry straight white people, they'll bullwinkle428 May 2012 #7
No Aerows May 2012 #15
We have a winner HillWilliam May 2012 #30
So, If You're Black, Hispanic, Asian, Then Gay Marriage Is Okay??? Yavin4 May 2012 #8
Exactly treestar May 2012 #28
My mother-in-law, when she was alive, Baitball Blogger May 2012 #9
Since 2008, bighuge red money has been flooding in HillWilliam May 2012 #11
I wish you the very best. Baitball Blogger May 2012 #12
Don't leave NC Alcibiades May 2012 #21
As it happens, I live in rural-but-very-blue HillWilliam May 2012 #27
There's always Vermont. Alcibiades May 2012 #31
We do love Vermont, but there's a couple of big problems HillWilliam May 2012 #32
I much prefer the weather in Vermont Alcibiades May 2012 #34
We're 45-50 minutes away from Duke HillWilliam May 2012 #35
Gay people are people Alcibiades May 2012 #36
"Brunstetter insisted there was nothing racial about her remarks." Well ok then! yellowcanine May 2012 #10
Keep this in mind Aerows May 2012 #14
+1. DevonRex May 2012 #29
Protect the caucasian race from what exactly? Rex May 2012 #16
Hey lady you got a drop of African blood in ya! nadinbrzezinski May 2012 #17
Hopefully, this will boost turnout against. Passed an overpass with a vote no banner this morning. mmonk May 2012 #18
Pfft. Obviously "caucasian" isn't racial. Beartracks May 2012 #19
Our State House has been taken over by the biggest cabal of lunatics. paparush May 2012 #20
This is no longer Jesse Helms' North Carolina Alcibiades May 2012 #22
It's a losing battle. ArtiChoke May 2012 #24
This type of thinking is precisely what is seroiusly wrong our world. Dont call me Shirley May 2012 #25
The racism... still overt in the Republicans sakabatou May 2012 #33
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