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In reply to the discussion: The Constant Pain Of Being Ugly. [View all]treestar
(82,383 posts)27. i think must be your nice self
and people will overlook that. Being nice (and stylish if possible) goes a long, long way away from that sort of stuff. People who make fun are only showing their own inadequacies. Society can be quite shallow, but many people are way above that. Look to the individual! Charlotte Bronte had written one of her novels about a heroine who was not conventionally beautiful but had friendships. In fact, Jane Eyre was also a character described as unattractive. Also, you may be more beautiful than you realize - it can get into one's head as a negative and not be so bad as you think.
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Some of the most beautiful people on the outside are very ugly on the inside
dissentient
Apr 2015
#6
A video by a woman called "the world's ugliest woman." I think you'll love her. I know I do.
femmedem
Apr 2015
#9
One is not ugly if they are beautiful on the inside. That is all that counts.
leftofcool
Apr 2015
#21
Sorry that you are in pain. Consider seeing a professional as to your depression,
closeupready
Apr 2015
#24
Hi mylye, I hope you found a better place to live and am sorry you are still having
uppityperson
Apr 2015
#26
This is very true. For example, I've come to realize that when I think of someone's height I tend to
Chathamization
Apr 2015
#56
What are your job skills, if that is ok to ask? You should not have to endure such shallow
Jefferson23
Apr 2015
#40
We're social creatures. It is difficult to love yourself despite hate from elsewhere.
lumberjack_jeff
Apr 2015
#50