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In reply to the discussion: Columbia University Student Will Drag Her Mattress Around Campus Until Her Rapist Is Gone [View all]Monk06
(7,675 posts)relationship with Nungesser where she engaged willingly in anal sex. She then tried to continue the relationship after the so called rape and mentioned anal sex as an enticement in those subsequent emails. While in the original complaint she implied that she did not want, enjoy or consent to anal sex.
She said she loved him and asked him about other girls he was dating.
She broke her confidentiality agreement with Columbia and claimed to the press that they asked her to contact Nungesser and talk over the 'rape' with him as a means of settling the matter. The university denies that as a matter of written policy. It never happened. They asked her during the investigation whether she had contacted him after the incident to establish a chronology of facts concerning the incident. They did not recommend that she contact him to settle the matter. So she lied about that.
She has shown a consistent pattern of lying, distortion of facts and demonstrable pattern of planning this incident since the summer of 2014. In fact she planned it over the phone with her senior art instructor Jon Kessler. That was three months before the launch of the project during the day of protest. Kessler is being sued for his part in the affair so she either duped him into going along with her planned shame campaign or he was a willing participant. He'll be lucky to come out of this with his job and reputation intact.
She discovered very quickly that this hoax would make her a celebrity, which it has. Since we live in a culture of celebrity where truth and talent don't matter she will translate this into a teaching job at a major university regardless of whether Nungesser wins his lawsuit and she is discredited.
An to top it off you are eliding Rape Culture with and into the Rape Industry. Is that the next misanderist thought bubble to be forwarded as fact by the Feminist Industry?
Women are fast reaching the point where men, even sympathetic men will no longer engage women unless it is an absolute requirement of their employment and then only in the most guarded circumstances.
If you were a woman and valued the friendship and companionship of men, ask yourself whether you would consider the world a better place if rigid gender apartheid was the prevailing social order. And then ask yourself if that would make you a happier and better person.