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Dont call me Shirley

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51. Alyssa...

Sat May 16, 2015, 05:06 PM

May 2015

Maybe someday schools will really protect the bullied instead of the bullies. Too many schools anti-bully programs are shells with no meat.

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Bullied 12-year old girl kills herself after school told her to "toughen up" [View all] davidn3600 May 2015 OP

May Alyssa rest in peace. In_The_Wind May 2015 #1

That is a statistic no school should have. Initech May 2015 #2

Maybe the School District hired Mitt Romney's Bain Capital as a consultant. I hear tell that KingCharlemagne May 2015 #33

Or maybe schools/districts are hiring outside consultants erronis May 2015 #48

The rise of the oligarchy is real, it's not CT when it is exactly what is behind all of what's mother earth May 2015 #58

"You can call me a 'conspiracy theorist' if I can call you a 'coincidence theorist' " (Quote attrib- KingCharlemagne May 2015 #66

I didn't call anyone a CT, and don't appreciate the other CT term you seem to be applying to me. mother earth May 2015 #68

Sorry, I used very sloppy word choice and poor punctuation. It's a saying by KingCharlemagne May 2015 #69

TY very much, you had me worried. mother earth May 2015 #70

FWIW, I love tossing 'coincidence theorist' at jerks who try to shut me KingCharlemagne May 2015 #71

I completely agree! n/t AwakeAtLast May 2015 #42

Still holding the students responsible???? What are adults for???? libdem4life May 2015 #3

I know. But it's been that way for many years. My poor kid, at age 12, was Nay May 2015 #29

I was there too, 50+ years ago erronis May 2015 #49

"...segregated facilities (by sex or interests or whatever)..." greiner3 May 2015 #64

That, of course, includes all of us. erronis May 2015 #65

14 dead kids and you say "toughen up"? mopinko May 2015 #4

That sounds like an invitation to create Ilsa May 2015 #34

I really want to be angry, but all I can be right now is sad. NuclearDem May 2015 #5

We live in a bully culture. Our TV and movie heros bully "the bad guys". People don't understand rhett o rick May 2015 #6

recommend nadinbrzezinski May 2015 #8

You know much better than I. I salute you Nadin. rhett o rick May 2015 #11

Yeah and they are back at it nadinbrzezinski May 2015 #12

I recommend your recommend. longship May 2015 #25

America is a half civilized country AZ Progressive May 2015 #13

We live in a sado-masochistic culture that celebrates torture and cruelty, so long KingCharlemagne May 2015 #35

I so agree. nm rhett o rick May 2015 #40

Freud caused many of our issues we see today. F4lconF16 May 2015 #41

Isaac Newton believed in and practiced alchemy. Shall we toss out Newton's contributions KingCharlemagne May 2015 #45

We are as backward a culture as exists on the planet. hifiguy May 2015 #43

Hey, just look at the most popular religion of our sado-masochistic culture. backscatter712 May 2015 #72

The problem is it goes too far in the other direction. kcr May 2015 #78

We all recognize the big brute bully. But many don't recognize the self-righteous bully. rhett o rick May 2015 #81

The problem is people don't recognize the self righteous bully when it is themselves kcr May 2015 #82

I just think that too many are too quick to jump in and dish out self-righteous retribution. rhett o rick May 2015 #83

I realize you were speaking generally kcr May 2015 #84

This is sad heaven05 May 2015 #7

How can this school face an epidemic of student suicides without acknowledging and responding? NBachers May 2015 #9

This is what schools basically tell kids, "your supposed to learn to defend yourself" AZ Progressive May 2015 #10

Really sad that this is said to kids… CoffeeCat May 2015 #16

And if you DO... sendero May 2015 #27

Yeah, learned that way myself. sakabatou May 2015 #61

But if a victim tries to defend himself or herself, the *victim* gets punished by the school for tblue37 May 2015 #38

Sometimes I think awoke_in_2003 May 2015 #44

Or the schools just put you in the Catch 22. backscatter712 May 2015 #73

Yeah, Alyssa! TOUGHEN UP!! AngryDem001 May 2015 #14

I have worked in this school before... CoffeeCat May 2015 #15

One would think that schools should protect kids, but it seems that that's not the school admin's... AZ Progressive May 2015 #20

I was bullied for six straight years, going to school felt like going to a warzone AZ Progressive May 2015 #23

i am so sorry you had to go through this etherealtruth May 2015 #37

I'm sorry you had to experience that, you should have been protected. Dont call me Shirley May 2015 #53

I don't think involving the police in these situations would help anything. nessa May 2015 #31

Not sure I'm completely down with "three strikes" rules for 12-year-olds and, KingCharlemagne May 2015 #36

Sadly, I recommend this. Lunabell May 2015 #17

I feel sick. cyberswede May 2015 #18

The people who speak of the need to "toughten up"... JHB May 2015 #19

What do you mean by "toughen up"? lobodons May 2015 #24

Grow a thicker skin of course justiceischeap May 2015 #26

... Dont call me Shirley May 2015 #55

Exactly. God help you if your kid takes a swing back at the bully. You'll find the school Nay May 2015 #30

too sad for words.... secondwind May 2015 #21

Who Should "Toughen Up" Is The Principal DallasNE May 2015 #22

This school is horrible Gothmog May 2015 #28

This kind of thing is going on everywhere--especially related to sexual identity/preference-- mnhtnbb May 2015 #32

Toughen up? 15 suicides in 12 years, that is horrific. RIP for this poor kid. n/t Jefferson23 May 2015 #39

Kicked Enthusiast May 2015 #46

K&R! Omaha Steve May 2015 #47

The culture of "Zero Tolerance" needs to be removed alphafemale May 2015 #50

Alyssa... Dont call me Shirley May 2015 #51

The principal needs to be re-assigned DFW May 2015 #52

Drag that principal into a dark alley... backscatter712 May 2015 #74

This headline is total BS oberliner May 2015 #54

This story is about a dead little girl, dead by her own hands, murdered by bullies. Dont call me Shirley May 2015 #56

Amen oberliner May 2015 #60

... Dont call me Shirley May 2015 #62

15 suicides in 12 years. kcr May 2015 #79

That is insane oberliner May 2015 #80

gah allan01 May 2015 #57

No words. Elmer S. E. Dump May 2015 #59

Mercy shenmue May 2015 #63

heartbreaking marym625 May 2015 #67

I couldn't even click on this thread at first. hunter May 2015 #75

+1 n/t Smarmie Doofus May 2015 #76

Poor girl. May she rest in peace bobjacksonk2832 May 2015 #77

Fifteen suicides and they don't recognize a problem? lpbk2713 May 2015 #85