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(32,379 posts)Most def!
I don't want to flog this, I know people who liked him are hurting. But there was some stuff going on in groups and forums that didn't get the kind of attention that a GD post might get. I was shocked at how outright nasty he was to my co-host, and mocking that she'd never been a mod and should be removed as a host. It was an opportunity to be helpful to someone trying to learn how DU3 works--not an opportunity to make her a figure of ridicule, using his experience as a cudgel, instead.
I feel a little weird even bringing this stuff into the conversation, but I feel like as a woman, that "just" being upset about the thing he got banned for isn't credible enough. Which is itself kind of awful. But I hope that people who thought he shared their values will also look at the record and reflect a bit.