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slackmaster

(60,567 posts)
53. Thank you for your kind words
Fri May 18, 2012, 08:03 AM
May 2012

I think my friend was several years beyond any possibility of being helped.

One of the biggest problems with treating a major mental disorder is that except under extraordinary circumstances in which a person can be compelled by a court of law to get treatment, the patient always has the right to refuse to be treated.

I know that my friend had developed a very negative attitude about psychiatric medications. I have no doubt that during her stay at the county mental hospital she at the very least put up a great deal of resistance to taking any pills. She was given a prescription for some kind of antidepressant, which she didn't take; and an appointment with a specialty psychiatric clinic, which she blew off.

Another sad aspect of the situation is that she bought the gun with which she shot herself, just 10 days BEFORE her involuntary commitment. She picked it up after California's mandatory 10-day wait on the day that police were called because an alert friend saw that she was setting things up for her death, including an obvious suicide note. The police who picked her up didn't find the weapon, neither did the people who searched through her personal belongings (for drugs or weapons) while she was locked up. We survivors believe it was probably hidden in the trunk of her car, where nobody thought to search.

Had she attempted to buy the gun after being released from the hospital, she could not have legally acquired it. But I am sure that in the long run she would have found a way to end her life even without it.

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I support legalizing assisted suicide. nt ZombieHorde May 2012 #1
Me too. Little Star May 2012 #6
Totally agree cbayer May 2012 #12
I do too. lunatica May 2012 #38
Me too. But there needs to be safeguards in place so that people with disabilities applegrove May 2012 #49
saves money, saves suffering... ileus May 2012 #2
Any person of sound mind should have the right hifiguy May 2012 #3
I support it JitterbugPerfume May 2012 #4
I kinda like the way Dr Death did it. Make it simple and make it sure the person is in so much southernyankeebelle May 2012 #8
I agree. I certainly would like the option of having someone (a doctor) give me the same injection Booster May 2012 #9
I support it, if someone desiring to end their life has put that in writing. sinkingfeeling May 2012 #5
I believe in physician assisted suicide with appropriate precautions and review if necessary hlthe2b May 2012 #7
I agree. RebelOne May 2012 #23
I'm proud to live in Oregon, the first state that legalized it. Arugula Latte May 2012 #10
I'm in favor. MrSlayer May 2012 #11
I can think of people whom I would volunteer to assist Jackpine Radical May 2012 #13
I'm all for it. Ganja Ninja May 2012 #14
All for it Marrah_G May 2012 #15
Don't know why you ask about assisted when this one apparently wasn't. Lionessa May 2012 #16
Depends, I guess, on your definition of "assisted." lapislzi May 2012 #19
OIC your point. Yep it certainly could mean, "did nothing to stop her" Thanks. Lionessa May 2012 #31
For it. Iggo May 2012 #17
I like the way it is set up in Oregon. MuseRider May 2012 #18
Better than taking on a train or 18 wheeler. Downwinder May 2012 #20
Fully support legalizing assisted suicide. n/t cynatnite May 2012 #21
If i'm in irresistible pain when I grow old Marzupialis May 2012 #22
I believe that we are the owners of ourselves. MineralMan May 2012 #24
100% in favor of assisted suicide rustydog May 2012 #25
Extremely ambivalent. Suicide CAN be and sometimes IS a rational decision. More often it is not. slackmaster May 2012 #26
I don't think that's what this discussion is about. lapislzi May 2012 #30
People who have mental illnesses sometimes decide incorrectly that they are incurably ill slackmaster May 2012 #37
Agreed. Borderline is a very difficult condition to treat lapislzi May 2012 #48
Thank you for your kind words slackmaster May 2012 #53
Sad story. lapislzi May 2012 #55
It should be an option? Are_grits_groceries May 2012 #27
It should be legal. ProfessionalLeftist May 2012 #28
Kevorkian had it right, Doctors should do it for you and it shouldn't cost you a dime. jp11 May 2012 #29
I have a lot of respect for Kevorkian. We should have option to die with dignity with MD supervision Hoyt May 2012 #36
all for it frylock May 2012 #32
I support assisted suicide. tallahasseedem May 2012 #33
Are we talking about Democrats? Or Republicans? AnotherMcIntosh May 2012 #34
I support death with dignity laws. MerryBlooms May 2012 #35
I support it without reservation. n/t CaliforniaPeggy May 2012 #39
As long as you clean up after yourself - go for it. kenny blankenship May 2012 #40
I think it should be allowed like in Oregon. I believe Norway or Denmark has an assisted shraby May 2012 #41
I support it (nt) bigwillq May 2012 #42
I think in this sort of situation - TBF May 2012 #43
I'm pro-choice on this matter. JNelson6563 May 2012 #44
no thanks, im good arely staircase May 2012 #45
It is another kind of choice felix_numinous May 2012 #46
It is not assisted suicide - it's death with dignity and that's an important distinction. SmileyRose May 2012 #47
I completely support death with dignity w8liftinglady May 2012 #50
I Support it, but fascisthunter May 2012 #51
100% support it LadyHawkAZ May 2012 #52
Not to sound camusian, it is a rational choice. aikoaiko May 2012 #54
Death With Dignity is a legal option in Oregon. Anyone who wants to know how it 'would' work Bluenorthwest May 2012 #56
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