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BlancheSplanchnik

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94. I've been chanting for your brother, you and all, this morning, steve

Sun Dec 25, 2011, 03:15 PM

Dec 2011

We are all connected, like the ropes of a fishing net. When you tug on one, they all move. We are all pulling for you.

"The experience of losing a loved one impels us toward a deeper understanding of life. Everyone fears and is saddened by death. That is natural. But by struggling to overcome the pain and sadness that accompanies death, we become sharply aware of the dignity and preciousness of life and develop the compassion to share the sufferings of others as our own."
― Daisaku Ikeda http://www.ikedaquotes.org/life-death/life-death600

“Strength is Happiness. Strength is itself victory. In weakness and cowardice there is no happiness. When you wage a struggle, you might win or you might lose. But regardless of the short-term outcome, the very fact of your continuing to struggle is proof of your victory as a human being.”
― Daisaku Ikeda

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I'm not very religious, but I could use your help this Christmas. [View all] stevedeshazer Dec 2011 OP

Hugs to you and yours, stevede elleng Dec 2011 #1

Thanks. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #3

So sorry Yo_Mama Dec 2011 #2

+1, and thanks. n/t stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #5

Cherish these moments with him nadinbrzezinski Dec 2011 #4

Thanks. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #6

Spend time with your family and hug them all csziggy Dec 2011 #7

Awesome. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #10

Hope it helped csziggy Dec 2011 #110

Thank you very much, I really appreciate your response. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #134

Strength to you and your family for the coming days. Love, appreciate, and remember. northoftheborder Dec 2011 #8

Always, thanks. n/t stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #18

Get HOSPICE CARE IF AVAILABLE, RIGHT AWAY! Prayers do Help. Sharing good times matters. CarmanK Dec 2011 #9

He's not quite there yet, but we've lined it up. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #12

So sorry steve. cherokeeprogressive Dec 2011 #11

We just never know. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #14

I'll keep him and your emilyg Dec 2011 #13

Thanks. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #16

So sorry to hear this. Vehl Dec 2011 #15

+1, and thanks. n/t stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #19

I don't pray. MedicalAdmin Dec 2011 #17

Thank you. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #20

Sorry about this. I was just telling someone to be sure to tell those you love, that you love them. freshwest Dec 2011 #21

Good advice. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #22

I think people don't because they think it's trite. I know that when those I have loved and who... freshwest Dec 2011 #27

i was just going to lay down. barbtries Dec 2011 #23

Good idea. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #32

you have my prayers, all of you. Take care of yourself too. I am praying for all of you. roguevalley Dec 2011 #24

+1 stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #33

I'm very sorry. yardwork Dec 2011 #25

Thank you. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #34

Best wishes to you and your brother. Riley18 Dec 2011 #26

Thank you and Merry Christmas. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #41

May loving angels surround you, your brother, and all of your families housewolf Dec 2011 #28

Thanks, and Merry Christmas! stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #36

Dear Friend, my prayers... ancient_nomad Dec 2011 #29

Your words mean a lot. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #37

I really think your brother hfojvt Dec 2011 #30

Received in the intended spirit. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #38

Good thoughts to you KT2000 Dec 2011 #31

Thanks, good person. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #39

I'm so glad he has you in his life RainDog Dec 2011 #35

We have become close lately like we haven't since childhood. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #40

And thanks to all of you, I am printing this thread and bringing it to him. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #42

I believe that he or whatever you believe in has given you Maraya1969 Dec 2011 #43

Thank you. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #45

Take care of each other Ms. Toad Dec 2011 #44

We are doing our best. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #46

I pray that love, peace and comfort surround you, your brother and his family. snagglepuss Dec 2011 #47

+1 stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #48

I am sending your little brother all the good karma I can muster this early Christmas morning. nevergiveup Dec 2011 #49

Thanks. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #77

Strong hugs..... Tikki Dec 2011 #50

Merry Christmas stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #66

... (((HUG))) ... Taverner Dec 2011 #51

Hoping your prediction does not come true. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #67

Praying for brother, Steve. Peace and love to your and your family. sueh Dec 2011 #52

Thanks. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #68

You are both in my prayers tonight, hope that's not a turn-off Fire Walk With Me Dec 2011 #53

It's not a turnoff. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #64

All my Christmas spirit and positive thoughts are now on their way to you my DU friend FlaGatorJD Dec 2011 #54

Merry Christmas! stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #69

Thank you for posting this with the advice NNN0LHI Dec 2011 #55

Thanks, Don. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #70

Here's a hug for you malaise Dec 2011 #56

I can't replace him. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #65

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Ah yes, the DNR papers. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #71

I'm sorry. GoCubsGo Dec 2011 #59

Thanks. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #72

I'm sorry Steve. lumberjack_jeff Dec 2011 #60

Good quote. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #73

I wish I could give you a real hug Viva_La_Revolution Dec 2011 #61

To you as well, my friend. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #74

Sending good vibes to you and your family. William769 Dec 2011 #62

Thank you and Merry Christmas. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #75

My thoughts and prayers to your family stevedeshazer. great white snark Dec 2011 #63

Merry Christmas! stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #76

Thank you for the rieminder BlueToTheBone Dec 2011 #78

Om Mani Padme Hum stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #91

Been there, done that. bemildred Dec 2011 #79

Thank you. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #85

Blessings, hugs and all good thoughts coming your way from East of the Cascades classof56 Dec 2011 #80

Your very kind and compassionate reply is much appreciated. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #86

thanks for the reminder steve bigtree Dec 2011 #81

You too, and thanks. n/t stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #87

May I suggest you get a copy of WE DON'T DIE, GEORGE ANDERSON'S CONVERSATIONS 1monster Dec 2011 #82

Great suggestion! stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #88

I hope all of you have a loving last holiday together lunatica Dec 2011 #83

We shall. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #89

Very best wishes and thoughts to your brother. And to his children. LeftishBrit Dec 2011 #84

Thank you, Merry Christmas and may you enjoy an excellent new year. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #90

love and light irisblue Dec 2011 #92

Peace and love. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #93

I've been chanting for your brother, you and all, this morning, steve BlancheSplanchnik Dec 2011 #94

You are so right. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #98

Sending good thoughts to you and your family. CakeGrrl Dec 2011 #95

Peace and love to you, CakeGrrl. n/t stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #99

Barring a miraculous recovery, I wish your brother a peaceful transition. AtomicKitten Dec 2011 #96

Same to you. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #101

i am so sorry blondie58 Dec 2011 #97

Thanks. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #100

My thoughts and warmest wishes go out to you and your family. annabanana Dec 2011 #102

Thanks, anna stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #126

My thoughts are with you ... you are not alone.... Yooperman Dec 2011 #103

Thanks. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #115

My oldest has survived 2 brain tumor operations sellitman Dec 2011 #104

It's amazing how many have this shared experience. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #116

Sending positive thougths your way. MelissaB Dec 2011 #105

Sorry to hear. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #117

I'm so sorry. polly7 Dec 2011 #106

(((hugs))) stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #120

Saying prayers for your brother and family DesertRat Dec 2011 #107

Appreciated. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #121

I don't know you but my prayers are with you. Today didn't turn out to be a great day for us either southernyankeebelle Dec 2011 #108

These are hard times for many of us. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #118

Thanks Steve. She spent the night at her dad's. The problem they both talk over each other and southernyankeebelle Dec 2011 #127

While not religious at all Sherman A1 Dec 2011 #109

+1, and thanks. n/t stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #119

Hugs and Prayers comming your way Tippy Dec 2011 #111

Peace and love to you. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #123

This Sixer's fan wishes you the very best ... !! JoePhilly Dec 2011 #112

The Sixers I respect. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #122

Thanks ... I'm glad to see Doug Collins coaching them ... JoePhilly Dec 2011 #128

Chocolate Thunder Darryl Dawkins is a legend in Portland because of the '77 Finals stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #129

I was at game 5 in Philly!!! JoePhilly Dec 2011 #130

Wow! stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #132

Sending prayers to your family, stevedeshazer. femmocrat Dec 2011 #113

Sorry to hear about your sister. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #124

I don't know if there is a God susanr516 Dec 2011 #114

I don't know, either. stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #125

I am really sorry, stevedeshazer. sabrina 1 Dec 2011 #131

Thanks stevedeshazer Dec 2011 #133

I'm seeing this a little late but you'll all be in my prayers - TBF Dec 2011 #135