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[underahedgerow]

125. I believe

her relatives may have been more of a hindrance than help. There are some complex issues there.

TTW is a normal human being caught up in a spiral of unfortunate events. We can't all do it perfect, that's for sure, and she did the very best she could with what she has to work with. It happens to the best of us, and in particular to those who are more fragile. Some of us are made of some very tough stuff, and some of us just can't handle all the crap that gets tossed our way.

Those of us that are the tough stuff do what we can to help those who need it, when we can. Sometimes people just need a little help, sometimes they need a lot of help. In the absence of helping out, it would be nice if some of the trolls here would just keep out of it if they can't be constructive, compassionate or helpful. (not directed at you!!!! you're very nice!)